crispiddy12 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 basically i just over heard my g/f tell somebody that she isn't over her ex b/f. we have been together for 11 months now and been living together for 5 months.... i over heard her say this in the context that she just dropped her ex after a 8yr relationship that was on and off and then jumped in head first with me... somebody was going through something similar and she was trying to show her she can relate ya know. she went on to say that she never get bac with him and she is much happier now. ( i'm not sure what this means if she just said she isn't over him) she told her friend to stick it out cuz its worth it.. meaning her friend jumped in head first but is having second thoughts i guess cuz of her ex... this really wouldn't bother me that much but up until about 4 months ago her ex would call everyday trying to get her back and everyday she would tell him to go to hell... i hated it!! and we definetly had our share of arguments about this... i guess i just thought since i never heard about this again cuz he stopped calling then it was finally over.... but what does that mean if she is telling somebody else that she is not over her ex??? i'll take any advice please
norajane Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 An 8 year thing is going to take someone a while to get over. It sounds like you might have been a rebound relationship that she got into before she was emotionally ready. Even if a break-up is bad, you still have residual feelings to deal with that you can't just turn off like a faucet. Sometimes those feelings are love, but sometimes they're anger, resentment, hurt, whatever. What you should probably focus on is the rest of what she said: that she is much happier now that she is with you.
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