Ang2002 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Hello guys, sorry if my english is not very good but it is not my first language. I am dating a guy I really like but the situation with him really upset me. Every time we go out on a date, he says he´ll call me on whenever day and he never does, he takes much more days to do it. Ang every time after every date he will say ok should we meet up tomorrow, or in 2 days o whatever and when the day of the date comes either I have to call him almost at the time when the date should take place and then he will come but later(seems like he forgot), or he will call me cancelling giveing me some stupid excuse. Then after few days he will call, we will go out again and all that I have just tell you will happend again. I really like the guy, so stop seeing him that would be the best idea, is not an option for me right now. Is there something I can do to turn things around and have him calling when he says and meeting me when we arrenge withouh him breaking the dates so often? Thanks.
superconductor Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Take the hint. He's just not very interested.
bluechocolate Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 I really like the guy, so stop seeing him that would be the best idea, is not an option for me right now. Why is that not an option? Of course it is, but if you're convinced that it is not then all you can do is put up with his behaviour (which, by the way, is very disrespectful - is that what you want? A guy who disrespects you?).
blind_otter Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 It should be an option to stop seeing him, fergawdsake. You need to date someone that is actually interested in you. You deserve it!
Adunaphel Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 I have to agree with the other posters, sorry. He is either not very interested, and does not respect you, or he is just someone who lives in his own world and disrespects people in general. Either way, why should anyone put up with such behaviour?
ash8752 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 It sounds like he likes you, but not enough. I think you should read the book "He's just not that into you." If a guy really likes you he would call when he says, be there when he says, and you should have very little doubt about what he feels or thinks. I say, walk away, you deserve soo much better!
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