Charisma Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 I met a wonderful a guy awhile ago and we seem to really hit it off but there's one thing that bothers me....he's not a great kisser. How can this be improved? It almost spoils are dates everytime..... The both of us probably need some help...
Pink Amulet Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Slow it down. Go in for a soft and concentrated kiss. Brush your lips on his. If he goes in to fast, subtly pull back. Do everything but open your mouth, or use tongues. This comes later when you two have developed a style and rhthym.
moman Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Maybe it's too rushed. I HATE kissing girls who are bad kissers. I would work with a girl a little bit, but too much work is for the birds. Every forced kiss is a bad one, make sure it comes naturally.
Author Charisma Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 How can I encourage him to kiss me more slowly and softly, and in other places like my neck without hurting his feelings or ego.
Blackfrost Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 practice makes perfect. you don't get good until you've really practiced
nicki Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 Do what Pink Amulet said...He'll slow down if you do. Tell him you love the way his lips taste and want to savor them s-l-o-w-l-y.... Also, if you want him to kiss your neck, just whisper in his ear how much you love it when he kisses your neck. Even if he's never done it before, he'll probably think he has and that you loved it. When his lips move there, give in to a few sexy, breathy moans. In other words, give him some positive feedback and he'll get the message of where to go. (I think most guys like it when we are a bit more audible in our passionate responses.)
Guest Posted August 10, 2006 Posted August 10, 2006 2 words - 'teach him' say stuff like 'you know what, I reallyyyyyyyyyy like being kissed slowly....' 'i love my neck being kissed, it sends shivers down my spin' 'i love just our lips touching' if it's going to fast - stop him and breathlessly say 'whoa i need to catch my breathe' 'hold on there tiger' 'slow down fella what's the rush, I'm not going anywhere' etc etc etc... Also if it's both of you (as you said) find out how he likes to be kissed as well. I agree with nicki - positive feedback, tell him stuff you like and reactive positively when he does it. This shouldn't hurt his ego if fact it will do the opposite.
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