Spitkicker Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Okay so me and my exGF went out for like 4 years. one of my best friends(a girl) ending up being really good friends with my exGF. Now that my ex screwed me over and hurt me really after 6 months, my best friend is still hanging out with her because she doesn't want to choose sides. I understand her perspective, but It sucks knowing that one of your best friend is hanging out more with your ex that she is with you. Especially after screwing me over like my ex did. Part of me just wants to cut both of them out of my life, but I know my friend definately wouldn't want that. If you need more details feel free to ask, but what the hell do I do?
sickkitty Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 how long have u known ur friend? was it a bad break up? if ur ex brock up with u then ur friend should be giving u support not her if u dont mind mw asking how did u guys break up? I think u should tell ur friend how u feel, she doesnt have to choose sides but if ur hurting she should defo b there for u more Amanda xx
Author Spitkicker Posted August 8, 2006 Author Posted August 8, 2006 I have known my friend since early highschool.. we both have graduated college already. It was a bad break up... basically the same kind of break up a lot of the people on here are going through. gave her the best 4 years anyone could give her. dumped me over something petty. she basically started dating around a month. got into a relationship with another guy. kept me on a string for 6 months saying that she wanted to be with me, thensuddenly re-nig after like a week. She did this a few times. finally came to terms that I don't want to be with her whatsoever and that I can do better then what she gave me. Still have hurt feelings from all the memories we had, but I know I must move on. best friend became good friends with exGF through me. My best friends boyfriend went into the military and also her BEST friend lives in another city now... so it's basically just me. I can't really hang out with her all the time cause I work.. so she ends up hanging out with my ex. I want to forget that my ex existed, but I can't because it's like everyone connected to her somehow. I really don't want to lose my bestfriend, but it's like i'm going crazy. any new thoughts? What do I do?
sickkitty Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 My ex bf has done the same to me as ur ex gf done to u He strung me along up until this sat, all this time he has been dating another girl but still kept me sweet I personally would confront this friend and tell her how hard it is for u, that u nned her support right now rather than ur ex does and ur the one hurting not her! If she is any type of friend she will listen 2 what u have 2 say and take in that u need her right now! If she doesnt well maybe u should find some new friends Hope it works out for u Amanda xx
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