incognito Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Well...quick recap since I haven't posted in a while...I "dated" my MM for over a yr before I found out he was married...quite by accident of course..his wife walked in while he was on the phone w/ me...by then of course I was hooked. Well it's been about 6 months since the discovery and we've been all over the map but mostly still seeing each other....it's been a hell of a roller coaster...even w/o his wife, there's been ongoing issues w/ other girls. Well...I'm finally feeling like I can see straight...through the lies and manipulation....so much manipulation, and the disrespect...towards me and his wife....does he think I can't add 2 and 2 when he talks to me about how he manipulates his wife? Duh....I can tell when you're doing it to me! So...I've told him we're done...though I'm sure he doesn't realize I mean for good since we've been off and on forever. I finally feel like I don't want to be w/ him. I still love him...and I know I will still crumble if I am not strong and distant...but at least I can see that I SHOULDN'T be w/ him. Just wanted to share:o
whichwayisup Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Congrats on that! You've seen the light and stay strong. YOU know in your heart that he isn't the right person for you, even though you love him. He's not worth the pain, energy and heartache.
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