Guest Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 My ex of 4 1/2 months has been living with someone else. We've had no contact since the breakup. He suddenly called the other day-6 times! It took me a few hours even to get enough nerve to listen to the first vm. Pleeeeaaaaase call me, singing our song, etc. I called him back, we talked for about 2 hours...just chatting. I did not respond to any hint of "us". He then calls me back that night, playing our song. Calls again telling me he loves me etc., and then I hear her in the background screaming at him, asking if I know all this horrible stuff about him, which I do. The next day he calls again and acts like he's talking to his guy friend (although it is me) asking if he can come live with him. I let him have it, and he insisted that he had to do this because she would have him arrested if he pissed her off and he'd never get out of there without a huge hassle. He then asked me to wire him some money so he could come home. Stupid me...I did. He called, thanked me, and said he'd see me in the morning. He never showed. Never called. Never answered my calls. He was at her house all day. She was home too. I knew he was a jerk, but even this is so beneath him. I'm guessing he owed her money for bills and didn't have it. I can't believe someone would go through so much for such a little amount of money ($50!). I loaned him the money to come home, not to pay "their" bills. Not only is he a liar, he apparently is a thief as well. And you know what-a simple 30 second phone call telling me he'd changed his plans would've made a world of difference on my end. I drove 2 hours to wire him that money. I was honestly worried that something had happened to him.
brisman Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Wow. $50 was a cheap price to pay to learn this about him. Now you know that you haven't lost anything worthwhile and he's out of your life. Congratulations!
Guest Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Wow. $50 was a cheap price to pay to learn this about him. Now you know that you haven't lost anything worthwhile and he's out of your life. Congratulations! Finally! Someone who sees my point! My friends all gave me a hard time about it, and I told them exactly that. We were together for over 2 years. He still owes me a much larger amount. Any time he had borrowed money in the past, he always used it for what it was meant for, and had made an effort to pay it back. When we broke up he had told me he'd start paying me back again over the summer. I hadn't heard anything from him, and because I had not wanted to speak to him, had sent him a letter last week. I got it back as "unable to forward" yesterday afternoon.
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