Hanna2126 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Hello all, I am new here. Although, I have been reading for a while, I decided just to post to get advice for my specific situation... I will start with a little hx. I am "involved" with my ex-boss. He is married, with two children. We would harmlessly flirt, then he took it to the next level by inviting me to lunch and the next thing you know I get involved with him for more than flirting. I was initially attracted to him because of his good looks and power. Then I got sucked in by his "charm". About three months into our relationship, he suprised me by buying me a very nice car. That was the last of the "good things"...now onto the bad... *sigh* 6 months ago I was forced to quit my job at his office, because a co-worker of mine figured us out. She snooped through his emails and found two plane tickets to a vacation destination we went to last fall. Although it was hell, we made it through because she did not tell his wife. He was also able to help me get another job with a friend/colleague within the same industry. Things got real ugly at my new job about a week ago. One of my coworkers, who happens to be the boss' daughter, asks me out of the blue: "Where did you get your car from, tell me the truth...." I brushed her off and told her I financed it. She then came to me with facts about vacations we had been on and so forth. This child seemed like the devil to me at this point! Then she says "your friend told me everything" I apparantley made a huge mistake and told one of my old friends about the A, and co-worker/boss' daughter happened to know him and guess what , I came up in the conversation. Now, keep in mind, it is not a credible souce. However, there were too many details to deny it although I tried my hardest.that rumor dies becuase there is no proof, and then comes the proof... 3 days later, MM and I got out to eat and guess who is sitting at the front of the restaraunt, my NEW boss. Big nightmare. Totally uncomfortable situation, however, we thought we were able to pass it off with just talking about business and nothing else was really said. Well, guess what. Boss' daughter talks to boss about her side of the story and he tells her and his wife about seeing us out together. And what do you know. We are CAUGHT. Another bad side to this, my new boss and his wife socially hang out with MM and his wife...I just found out about them putting two and two together today, so I am panicked. No one has gone to the wife yet. My boss was out today, so I have not had to deal with it. But boss' daughter confronts me today and says how she is going to hate me for life, called me a home wrecker, the whole nine yards...awful to say the least. So, if my boss confronts me should I deny the whole thing? Or should I tell the truth? Any thoughts, words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading.
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