BenThereDunThat Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 But I won't let him! But I have to vent, so you guys are the 'lucky' ones! lol I've already replied, although coldly & angrily, more than I should have. He tried to add me back into his contacts. Said he wanted to "talk some time". I said if you have something to say, go ahead and say it (via email). He said might we talk in person? I said NO. You've already apologized and we've already covered everthing so there's no point. He replied: Okay. Then he sent me a link to a website referencing an inside joke we used to share. I wrote back Don't. I know you want to be friendly but it's just not possible. (at this point I know I should just be completely ignoring him...) I said you got your intimacy fix now just go away and leave me alone already! (this is a man who has been comfortably married for 17 years but is missing that 'spark') He said 'fine. I won't bother you anymore. But you have it wrong and there are things I need to say but not in email.' That one I was able to delete without a reply. And have not been tempted to reply since. Because when I broke it off I got all his apology emails (I'm so sorry I hurt you, I knew all along I'd never be able to love you like you deserve but I fell in love with you, I couldn't help it. I should have stopped it. I just want you to be haaapy...) What more would he have to say at this point? I know what he's trying to do! He wants to get me in person, where I'm the weakest, so he could fill my head with more crap and then maybe he has a chance I'll get weak again. Call me pollyanna, but I have never known someone so manipulative!!! Have any of you other ladies had your exMM's try to pull this crap???
BUTAFLY Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Mine is sooooo smooth at times you don't even see it coming. His latest effort was him telling me he and his wife have sperate social lives...they don't like eachothers friends and she doesn't like to do the things he does & vise versa. I don't respond just raise my eyebrows as if to say sorry to hear that. Then he follows it up with "We always had fun together." I chuckle. He then proceedes to blame it on her ethnicity. (shes african american and he's white) I look at him like he's crazy. Can he go any lower?.....I mean totally disrepecting her at all cost and for what?...I will never be his ow again!! In fact the more he says stupid shyt like that the less attractive he becomes. This is why I want to tell his wife.
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