miracgirl Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 I dated this guy about a month ago for a about a month and I really liked him but then he stopped calling me and I did not call him. I've been thinking about calling him. I realize I should just move on, but I really like him. Anyway, there's this speed dating event coming up this week and he might be there since we discussed that we both like this group. My question is: Do you think I"m better off bumping into him at the speed dating event or should i call him? at first I thought bumping into him was better because I could save face and not have to call him after a month, but then I'm thinking maybe it will be awkward at the event....but then maybe i could call after the event if nothing gets accomplished there?? but what if he's not that friendly..or if he's talking to other girls there and we dont get a chance to really talk?? Please. I need your advice!!
MrPot Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Call him and tell him you want a date for next week. Be specific about the day. If he's busy and wants to see you, he'll make a counteroffer. If there's no counteroffer, the answer is no, and it's time to stop calling.
konfuzd Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Guys who just stop calling for no reason are not worth pining over. Sorry, but he's just not into you. He will be at this dating event to meet new girls, not ones that he's already been with. He's not going to be there worrying about you, what you're thinking, other guys you're talking to, so don't do the same for him. If I were you, I wouldn't call him, I'd go to the event, meet some new guys and just have fun. Stop worrying about that one.
SadandConfusedWA Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Call him. I'm 99% sure that he will make some excuse and still not want to see you. If I really like a guy and he stops calling, I do call one more time for a final "no" so to speak, so that I can move on. Give him a call, be prepared for rejection and then forget anout him.
Hitman10000 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Have you been calling him while he was calling you? If you haven't, then it's your fault for messing things up. In any case, a guy that doesn't call/email for about a week is usually not that interested in you.
moman Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Call him and tell him you want a date for next week. Be specific about the day. If he's busy and wants to see you, he'll make a counteroffer. If there's no counteroffer, the answer is no, and it's time to stop calling. Good advice. If a girl that I didn't like purposely bumped into me at an event she was likely to find me at, I would be pretty annoyed and certainly write her off. If you all left on good standings then it would be perfectly fine.
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