Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 my ex of a two and half year relatonship started instant messaging me a few weeks ago. after our breakup i wanted to stay together, she did not. yep i did all those things mentioned on here and she wasnt having it. finally i started to get over her and she messages asking how ive been etc. this was after about 4 months of NC. i beleive she thought i might have been involved with some girl because she kept asking or eluding to the fact of dating another girl. she initiated the contact 90% of the time. there was mild flirting going on and it seemed as if she was showing some interest. she even made references to pictures of us making out etc. then one night i said screw it..i asked what she was doing and if she'd like to hangout. she said it'd be weird adn that she didnt shower. i told her i wasn't going to try anything and that i just wanted her presence. she declined and said "we are not getting back together". i asked why she messaged me and she said to see how i was doing. i told her that it seems i was affected diffetnely by the breakup and that i wish her the best but she should leave me be. i dont get this girl...was she just pulling the string? should i have waited longer to ask her to hangout? was it smart of me to initiate NC again? should i have just went along with her flow and backed off when she wasn't game?
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