Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 In November of 2004, I started dating my current boyfriend. We were friends before we started dating. We never fight and when together we are very affectionate, but we both graduated college in May and now I face a dilemma. After graduating, we moved back in with our parents, so we are six hours apart. He has come to visit once during the summer. I do not have a car. At the end of this month he is moving 1000 miles away to go to grad school. I have no problem moving to where he is going to school, but I do not know if he wants me there. On the phone he is very distant and unemotional. He never says he misses me. When I say I love you to him, he responses with a very tired, unemotional I love you too. I have asked him what seems like a hundred times if he wants me to move with him and he always replies with "you should do what you want to" or "you don't have to just search for jobs around me, don't limit yourself", etc. I wish that I knew what he really thought.
caring guy Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 i worry a lot too. I have often given up jobs, studying, to be with a girl, now this girl i am with says i have to stay in my city & do what i am doing at coillege, but i would move to hers anytime. I love her, but we've only physicaly seen each other for 11 days although lots of msn chat & telephone. I feel a lot for her & worry she will finish it as she is more independent than me & self sufficient. I know how you feel cg
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