Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 Need alittle advise!!! My husband moved out, its been a month now. Well when he moved out he didnt take all his things. Here is the problem: It seems that whenever he needs something he comes over unannouced. I told him I wished he would let me know when he wants to come get his things so I would know I wasnt robbed or something, he said not a problem... Well today he needed something in the basement and decided to come unannouced, I wasnt here, but my kids were. I just dont get it. He gives me the impression he is done with me, doesnt love me anymore, But he still wants to leave some of his things here, like-tools, clothes, shoes, junk etc... When he does come and get some of his things it is just little things... He didnt stay long. Each time this happens I hurt more and more... People tell me I should tell him "get your all your things out of here or it would be on the curb by morning". But honestly I dont have the heart to do it, I feel as long as his things are here there might be a small chance we can work it out. I called the non emergency number for the police, just to see if I had any rights, since he has changed his address, and since we havent been living as man and wife for a month now.. The police said "As long as we are married he has every right to come in anytime he wants, and if I decide to change the locks, its not their problem". I guess I really dont understand this whole separation thing. Either he wants to be with me or not.. I hate this game he is playing.. I pray everyday for the day we can work things out.... But honestly I dont see it happening... He is just so happy were he is at.... AT HIS MOTHERS HOUSE!!! No responsiblities, no bills, no one to answer too, nothing... All he has to do is worry about himself... Here I am so miserable, I cry often, I cant eat, cant sleep. I find myself working more and more so I can pay all the bills... I really never thought it was going to be this hard but it is.... Does anyone have any advise they can give me..
P1xie Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 Is the house in his name? Have any papers been signed? As hard as it may be I would pack up all his belongings and have them shipped to his mommy's house and change the locks!
Gunny376 Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 Is the house in his name? Have any papers been signed? As hard as it may be I would pack up all his belongings and have them shipped to his mommy's house and change the locks! "Tha" Marines weren't you! LOL! "Your Corps! My Corps! I love the Marine Corps! Oooooooraaahh! Damn right!
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