Crono69 Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 So I known this girl for 2 years and we went out for a while and spent alot of time together ditching class and hanging out at my house. but it didnt work out and some bad things happened and she didnt want to see me anymore. she calls me up 2 months later thinking i hate her and we decide to see eachother. then she doesnt want to see me anymore AGAIN. so this time i get in contact with her. i message her through myspace and we get to talking and everythings fine. i ask her to lunch and she says that she would but it not in town. so we talk for a week or so messaging eachother then she stops. then finaly i message her again and she replies and that shes coming back. shes back now and i ask her to lunch and she says yeah lunch sounds fine. i gave her 2 days notice and she said it was ok. then saturday and she says its ok she thinks if shes not busy. i ask for her number twice and she didnt give it to me then she reads my messages but does not respond blowing me off on the day we were suppose to meet up. WTH? sometimes i think im going crazy, i think how can anybody be like this? lead somebody on so many times then blow them off. especially when we known eachother a while. maybe its cause im with bad standings with god, I dont know. it seems like im the only getting treated like this. seems like everythings going good then my hearts broken again. if she didnt want to see me she should have just said so. its not like she had any fear of telling the truth since it was over the net.
Green Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 You’re not good with god? What did you do to him? That probably is the reason she's toying around with you maybe the devil sent her to talk to you on the net and make and cancel plans with you. Doesn't sound that serious try to get some perspective on the situation your heart is probably just fine and you shouldn't put to much hope into anything happening with this girl, I'm not saying give up just don't get to sad if things don't work out.
superconductor Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 AW alert! AW alert! She's playing you, dude, she's jerking you around and you always come crawling back for more. No more contact with her, even if she initiates. You don't need such drama and irrationality in your life. Who does?
Hitman10000 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 She could be an attention ho or whatever, but I don't think Chron is telling us everything that's going on. I don't see in your post how you talk to this girl or if there has been any romantic going on between the two of you. My guess is that it's your fault Chron, there are somethings you cannot change or you screwed up, I'm assuming this only because you are not telling us everything. The thing about dating girls is, is if they don't feel comfortable or are not interested in you, they will make up excuse after excuse. Don't blame them, they get hit on constantly (well the pretty ones anyways), they've dated enough guys to know how we think and talk. They have to "feel" it for you in order go with you and guess what, us guys are the same. If I have a friend which I don't feel comfortable hanging out with, I usually never respond to voicemails or give a vague answer. You cannot assume that just because you're talking to a girl or trying to "befriend" her is going to get her to come out.
Author Crono69 Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 I dont know if I mentioned it but I knew her for 2 years. She gave me her phone # we went out for a while and we ditched class all the time to hangout at the mall, my house and all that. One time we ditched 3 weeks in a row. We always got to the messages or had some good excuse so we wouldnt get in trouble. Although we did get caught one time. The 1st time we went out she seemed so happy and it was the 1st time I seen her dress differently. The 1st couple times we went for a movie she would put her leg on mine. Then as time went by she stopped being so close and started to drift away from me. After a year or so she said I was too "needy" Always wanting to go out with her even after she got done working. So she said she didnt want to see me anymore. 2 months later she calls me up thinking I hate her and we hang out the next day. To my surprise, she was into some other dude... So I told her how I felt and she thought I was weird now and we didnt talk anymore. Now another year later Im the one who gets in contact with her through internet. She seems happy to hear from me and I ask her to lunch but shes not in town. Then when shes finaly back I ask her again and shes like "yeah, just tell me when" I said hows this day? and shes like yeah that sounds good. As the day is approaching she says she thinks its ok then finaly I ask for her # and she completely ignores my message. I know its not cause she was busy cause I could see that all my messages were read. I guess shes too stupid to realized that. So I know shes reading my messages but she thinks shes sly about it but not responding and pretending shes busy...
Author Crono69 Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 Oh yeah, and about me not being in good standings with god. I have not commited any crimes or anything. Sometimes I do things that I regret and lie about things but any normal person does these things sometime in their life. But the reason I say Im not in good standings is because I dont go to church and when something bad happens to me like this bull**** I get pissed and I swear at god like "**** YOU! Why are you toying with me?" I ****ING HATE YOU!" stuff like that... Not just this situation though. I cuss at him for other things too. And about her making excuses not to see me, I dont see why she would need to. We are talking over the internet. She could easily say no... She says Im needy? She was the one who called me ALL THE time because she needed me to pick her up. One time she skipped school but I was sick and she walked to my house! WTF?!
Hitman10000 Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 Alright dude, you gotta ignore this girl for a long while and move on to other distractions.
Author Crono69 Posted August 9, 2006 Author Posted August 9, 2006 I ignored her for a year. She always looked like she wanted to talk to me and sometimes she did and one time I saw her laugh and smile at me. I really cared for her but now I dont know cause shes bull****ing me and stuff and I thought that she was a better person then this. Now shes really bitchy and she seems different. But I dunno, I just think life would be weird without her in it, you know? Not saying I cant live without her, just saying that I dont want her to go.
superconductor Posted August 9, 2006 Posted August 9, 2006 I ignored her for a year. She always looked like she wanted to talk to me and sometimes she did and one time I saw her laugh and smile at me. I really cared for her but now I dont know cause shes bull****ing me and stuff and I thought that she was a better person then this. Now shes really bitchy and she seems different. But I dunno, I just think life would be weird without her in it, you know? Not saying I cant live without her, just saying that I dont want her to go. Something just doesn't make sense here. If she's lying to you, is bitchy and just all-around difficult, why would you want her in your life?
Author Crono69 Posted August 10, 2006 Author Posted August 10, 2006 Nah, I said she turned bitchy while we were away from eachother. When I 1st met her she was a nice and sweet girl but then when she called me up and we hungout she was different. Now she seemed bitchy, but I dont believe that she could just completely change like that. So then we didnt see eachother and then a year later I messaged her and she made it seem like she wanted to see me. I want to know why she would act as if she wanted to see me on the internet where she has no fear of saying no to me just to blow me off? I dont get why she would treat me like this. She could have just said, no I dont want to see you. But instead she says yeah she does then blows me off completely? what is that suppose to mean? Does she not want me in her life or is she testing me. Seeing if im still needy.
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