Guest Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years - the last year I have been away at school. He often tells me he loves me, discusses our future and tells me he wants to marry me. I trust him completely. I had originally planned to go home next week, but was able to change my schedule to go tommorow. He had planned to go camping with his friends, so told me not to come so soon. I haven't seen him in 4 months and cannot wait - but he doesn't seem excited at all. I am not mad that he is going - i think his guy time is important - I am mad though that there was no thought on his part about even considering staying to see me early. We only get to see each other for about a week every 3-4 months. Am I being paranoid or do I have a right to be mad?
P1xie Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 Sounds like he already had plans. I wouldn't be mad at my bf if he didn't change his previous arranged plans because mine changed.
norajane Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 Did you ask him first before changing your plans? It's not really fair for you to be mad at him if he already had plans and intended to see you when you had orginally said you'd be there.
Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 its not that i'm mad he still went with his friends - i think thats fine - i'm mad because it doesn't even sound as though he had to even think about what to do last week i had to hear on and on about should he go biking on Sunday or to the cabin for the weekend? He had the two options and just couldn't decide - but when the option is to either keep his plans of going to the cabin or staying back to be with me - no thought required
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