waitingwaitingonyou Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 Ok I have been working with this girl all summer. She is a great girl and I heard that she was a little interested in me. Well tonight I saw her out and too the plunge. I started off slow and then we started holding hands and stuff....It was going great. then I didnt see her for a while at the bar. I sent her a message and told her to meet me out back. I told her that I was interested in her. She didnt say anything back. I was a little drunk but she said that we would talk about it. She was sitting with me afterwards and then she just left. I didnt see her again. Now i have to go to work and see her again. I am regretting saying anything to her. Here is my question. She was interested in me but after I said that I was interested now she wont even talk to me..... Should I continue to persue her or should I stop^ How am I gonig to go to work? Should I say anything to her? I have her number but that might be too stupid to ask her about it....Should I send her a message or not? Maybe I should just let it goooooo!! What do you think...she is a cute girl that is smart and beautiful! awwww..w.w.w.w. I messed up i think!! Help me ladies and gents!
P1xie Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 Well you took the plunge and now it's time to waddle back up to the surface. Doesn't seem like she's interested. Did she give you her phone number or did you access it through work? I actually wouldn't call her and see how she acts at work. If you value your job you going to have to just bear with the initial awkwardness. One of the most valuable lessons my father taught me was "You don't get your meat where you get your potatoes".
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted August 6, 2006 Author Posted August 6, 2006 Well i got the number through her tonight at the party before we went out. I mean everything was great. Then she just left and I sent her a message to meet me out back and then I TOOK THE PLUNGE.....she then just left. I guess she is not interested. I only have a week left at my summer job then i am back to school!! She moves away 7 hours from me anyways...So i really wont see her anyways! But I mean I was actually really interested in her. Is there anything I could do to get her to TRY again to say the least or something like that! ....... Who know! I am 5 years older than her by the way too!1 Thanks PIxie...help me please hehe
P1xie Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 Ok you're right women can't understand. I don't understand if she was not interested in you why she would give you her phone number. Was she drinking too? Was she drinking too much and feeling ill and that is why she left? Give her a call see what's up.
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted August 6, 2006 Author Posted August 6, 2006 Yeah she was drinking but I saw her with some friends afterwards. She said that she would come back to where I was sitting but she never did! I dont know! It was all just wierd! I dont know really what the hell went wrong...she was like all interested one minute..the next she wasnt...It was wierd! She might not remember what happened! She did give me a hug and stuff..but who knows what she was feeling! What do you think??
P1xie Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 I don't think she would of given you her number if she didn't want you to call. So give her a call.
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted August 6, 2006 Author Posted August 6, 2006 pixie do you have msn if so add me to msn... you seem smart hehe!!
austin24 Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 I think the reason why she's acting she's not interested, it's probably because she's just not interested. For some women, it's the process of being persued and chased. You persued and told her your interest. You're not new and exciting anymore. It sucks but women are crazy, even the normal ones.
Hitman10000 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Mistake #1 You dated your coworker. Don't date coworkers, if both of you are very flirty and googly eyed with each other for awhile, then it's okay. Mistake #2 You told her you're interested/in love with her. Don't hand your balls to any woman. Don't even tell her you love her, don't believe in what romantic movies tell you. Solution for you is to LEARN FROM MISTAKES, IGNORE GIRL, MOVE ON. If you really feel for this girl, give her space and wait a couple months before deciding to do anything.
lovestruck234 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 Maybe it was only a rumor that you heard she liked you....?? Hmmm...I'm a girl and I don't even understand this one!! Well, this is just the way I am, and I know this is really cruel....but I like the chase....I like getting chased. I like to think I have some guys by the balls and I can get anything out of them. I know this is really bad, I haven't done it since I've got a bf now but I used to be like that... I would call her. Definitely. There's no point sitting back and thinking "what if? How come? Why?" cos that's not going to get you anywhere. If you're going back to school and most likely won't see her again or very rarely, then go over to her house, don't talk over the phone, I hate that! Talk to her face to face! If I were her, I would respect you waaaay more if you took it upon yourself to get things right! Just my 2 cents!
monkey00 Posted August 8, 2006 Posted August 8, 2006 take this as a lesson and move on. telling her you're interested is very different than showing her your interest through actions. unfortunately girls dont like things to be so straightforward sometimes. telling her you're interested in hanging out or grabbing drinks/coffee with her is another spinoff also. it's all in the matter of how you say it.
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