lailla_flava Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Will somebody please help me. My mom really hates my boyfriend. I love him so much and honestly he supports me, provides advice to me, holds me, talks to me, and helps me in all that I do. We pray together, laugh together, and cry together. But my mom hates his guts!!!! She feels like he is rude and is trying to use me for money. They don't talk at all so when day when she came by our apartment to drop off a package he came to the window and did not answer the door. However, he did tell me that she came by. My mom was furious that he did not answer the door and has not gotten over it. So much so, she ruined my graduation day by arguing with him. My mom pulled my boyfriend to a corner, approximately 20 minutes after I walked across the stage, and started to argue with him about past issues. She was very loud with him and argued in front of all of the other graduates. I was so hurt that I ran out of the atrium. I spent five years working on my bachelors and masters degree but she chose to argue with him instead of taking photo's with me. Because they do not get along, my boyfriend stays away from my whole entire family. This is sad because he truly is a nice person and is very smart but they just don't see they real him. I will admit that me and him have argued in the past but he has never hit me or called me outside of my name. We have never cheated on each other and he stuck by me when I was in counseling. We don't go to any family events together and when the holidays come around I have to split my time between him and the rest of my family. What can I do? I understand that he is not perfect but he really is good guy. He simply does not want to be around my mom or my family. We are talking about getting married and we both want a really nice wedding but we may have to elope or get married at the courthouse so that there is not any fights at the wedding. Please somebody help me....I am miserable and hurt!
Clone56 Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 That is a crappy situation. I understand cause im in same boat. My GF's mom hates me well it is kinda my fault cause I told her to F off after she said I couldnt name my baby what i wanted to cause she didnt like the name. Now me and her whole family dont even talk. Is your mom a pyshco or something cause if she isnt then sit down and talk to her. Let her know she has to accept him cause you are with him no matter what.
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