nygoddess Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 I've been seeing a guy for about 6 months, we both agreed that we didn't want to be in a serious relationship because things get too complicated. We are friends I guess with benefits, within the pass 6 months I've seen him 7 times and only had sex once. He claims he is to busy but he constantly calls me, to check up on me. He went on a trip recently and never called me while he was away and I couldn't contact him because the cell number I have, he never turns on that phone because of "bad reception"...so he's claiming... He never offered to give me his business cell phone number and I don't want to ask because I figured that if he wanted me to have it he would give it to me.....Sometimes he sends mix signals, he'll do things to show he cares and other times he won't. He told me that he's not letting me go because I'm the best and I call all the shots...but still he doesn't find time for me. So my question is, could he be into me? Playing games? Or could there be someone else taking up his time?
MsArtful Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 That's the thing with being friends with benefits, it gets really messy. If all you are is.. friends with benefits then it's quite possible that he is seeing some one on the side. It sounds like you want your relationship to be something more, and you have to let him know if you do. If you don't however, and want to remain friends with benefits, he will see other women which is something you will have to accept. It's a little harsh, but you can't stay in that hazy "almost a relationship" grey zone.
been7077 Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 You don't have "man trouble" you have woman trouble, your own. You now want a relationship that's better than FWB and he appears not to. Mixed signals tells you that the roads are different. If you want to continue to be another road side attraction than keep on driving. If you want to find the right exit then pull over, study the map, and go with someone who gives you the green light. It's that simple, really.
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