Diver012 Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 I came across this and found it extremely interesting...... This looks like an awkward question. Who will confess that he/she is not lovable? But the truth is that many of us are not lovable at all. Can you imagine of a small kid? A kid is always lovable. Why? If we can answer that question, we will solve the puzzle about whether we are lovable or not? A kid is innocent. Knows nothing and is totally defenseless. You love a kid, because he/ she wants you to protect him/her. You love a kid because of innocence. You love the kid because of the smiling face. You love the kid because the kid has no malice towards anyone. Does not desire any thing bad for any one. Recognizes no enemies and has faith in everyone. The kid is totally free of all negative emotions. That is why we all love a kid. How many of us are like that? How many of us keep a smile on our face forever? How many of us are free of negative emotions? Not many. Agreed that we are grown ups and can not be like a kid. But surely we can borrow some good qualities from the kid. How about forgiving everyone? How about not getting angry at all? How about having faith in everyone unless proven otherwise? How about loving everyone? How about stopping judging anyone? Once we acquire some of these qualities, we will become lovable. Believe me that it is that simple. All of your friends and colleagues will begin liking you more. You will get love from unexpected quarters. You will get your dream darling in a little time, after you transform yourself.
TheSilentType Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Yeah, maybe I'd be more lovable if I smiled more. Everyone likes my smile and they are actually surprised at me when I smile. I guess even when I'm just relaxed, my face seems kind of serious. But I just feel it would be weird to kind of smile or have a upbeat look on your face all the time.
Outcast Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 But I just feel it would be weird to kind of smile or have a upbeat look on your face all the time. Why? Isn't your eye drawn to someone who looks pleasant? Or do you scope out the people who look serious or morose or angry instead?
TheSilentType Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Of course I'm more drawn to people who smile. But there should be a reason they are smiling. To me it would feel weird to just have a happy look all the time. I wouldn't say so much that my face look serious all the time. I would say it looks composed and without much expression. Hard to explain without being able to show it. I don't think I'm really any different in this sense than most people. Most of the other kids during college used to walk around with pretty much the same expression. Not many people walked around cheery and smiling.
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