Brokenheart17 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I need to hear from people like me. People who have fallen hard for a married person. After a year of chasing me, I finally let my guard down and fell for a married man who promised everything, including a divorce. When it was time to actually pay for the attorney, however and break up the family, he decided to stay. Fantasy turned to reality. I was willing to face everyone with him after the breakup of his family, but he apparently was not. This was last week and I have not been dealing very well. Today was Family Day at my son's Scouting Daycamp. I went, halfway expecting to see HIM, but when SHE showed up too, it was a real test for me. Afterall, she had never gone to those functions before. I stayed and put on my happy face so MY son could havea good day, but I'm at home now and feel just lousy. Are there any other women (or men perhaps) who have gone through this? I am being tormented by all those nice words that keep playing in my head. Everything reminds me of him. I truly believed with all my heart he was the one for me. I'm ashamed of myself and am really expecting that man who I feel in love with to call me and tell me this "reconcilation" with his wife was a mistake. I need help. Apparently.
CrushedOrgans Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I truly believed with all my heart he was the one for me. even if you feel that way, you now know that his wife was and is 'the one' for him. that's a danger when getting involved with someone who is involved with someone else. you deserve better, and you probably know it, but you're hurting right now, and that is to be expected. keep busy, do other things, and move on. if he decides to leave his wife at any point, at least you'll know he did it because HE chose to, and then you have the choice of whether it's what you even want anymore...and it might not be. you'd be surprised.
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