Guest Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I am dating this 27 year old slut that I just found out cheated on me. We have been dating about 10 months. I got a video tape of her in the mail by someone that wanted me to see her getting stuff doggie style while she chocked on some dude's salami. I was out of town on teaching a seminar when this happened. Whomever taped the stuff spent a lot of time in the editing since they got her getting drunk and then gangbanged. I confronted her and she said nothing happened, then I showed her the tape and she vomited. She claimed that it was an "accident." I HATE HER, I HATE MY LIFE, SHE IS BEGGING ME NOT TO DUMP HER!!! WHAT CAN I DO???
konfuzd Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Please don't pin her nasty behavior on all women. You just ended up picking an apple with a worm in it, doesn't mean all apples are bad. You don't accidentally end up in a sexual position with anyone none the less multiple people. The only accident was that she got caught. If you respect yourself, lose this girl and find one who won't put herself in that position *pardon the pun*
pricillia Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 I am dating this 27 year old slut that I just found out cheated on me. We have been dating about 10 months. I got a video tape of her in the mail by someone that wanted me to see her getting stuff doggie style while she chocked on some dude's salami. I was out of town on teaching a seminar when this happened. Whomever taped the stuff spent a lot of time in the editing since they got her getting drunk and then gangbanged. I confronted her and she said nothing happened, then I showed her the tape and she vomited. She claimed that it was an "accident." I HATE HER, I HATE MY LIFE, SHE IS BEGGING ME NOT TO DUMP HER!!! WHAT CAN I DO??? Ok and she was gangbanged and you hate women??? Sounds like she got drunk and lost her inhibitions. I am not saying what she did was right. Her reaction tells all as she vomited. She probably denied it because she is embarrased! who knows what those gangbangers put in her drink.
Pink Amulet Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Damn, what a dirty whore. I was with my man for five years and was faithful for every one of them. Holding an entire race, occupation, and sex accountable for the actions of an individual is ludicrous. I understand your hurt, and rightfully so, but aren't you glad you discovered she was a inclined to gangbangings 10 months in to the relationship, and not 10 years!
superconductor Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Lose the hate, lose the emotional irrationality, and lose the chick. By all means, feel bad for a while - no harm in that, actually it's healthy - but like konfuzd said, one bad experience shouldn't taint the whole gender.
Pink Amulet Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Pricillia- that sounds like a justification of her actions. A whore is whore, regardless of alcohol % in the blood stream.
norajane Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Yeah, dumping her is the first thing you should be doing. Should have done it when she denied doing anything over the weekend. Next, go and get yourself tested for STD's. She may have had sex with other people during your relationship prior to this. And if you've had sex with her since that weekend, you're at risk. Then, you basically go through all the stages...sounds like you're in pissed off stage right now. You'll get your life back, though it will take some time. Please don't think all women would do this to their boyfriends.
Pink Amulet Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 I want to know why she vomited. She must have known she was being filmed, right? Do you know any of the people in the tape? How do you think this anonymous 'tipster' knew of you?
Fritz Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Yeah, dumping her is the first thing you should be doing. Should have done it when she denied doing anything over the weekend. Next, go and get yourself tested for STD's. She may have had sex with other people during your relationship prior to this. And if you've had sex with her since that weekend, you're at risk. Then, you basically go through all the stages...sounds like you're in pissed off stage right now. You'll get your life back, though it will take some time. Please don't think all women would do this to their boyfriends. Pretty much ditto what norajane said. I suppose one could forgive if she was forced/tricked to get drunk but that she wouldn't own up to it... Move on bro and get tested for STDs pronto.
Walk Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 hmm... read "I can't stand the pain" post, then read this one... Coincidence?
Guest Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 how can your life go so bad from one day to another. i picked up every kind of disease from this, this, this......................... I got the results, i am infected with HIV, gono, herpes and hepatitis B, i want to die.
pricillia Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Pricillia- that sounds like a justification of her actions. A whore is whore, regardless of alcohol % in the blood stream. hi Pink, No I am not justifying her actions at all, I would never do that... I am just saying you never know what the situation was. Maybe you can classify her as a whore but it does not make up her whole being. After all she is human as well. She was under the influence of alcohol, who knows how much??? I think that she made a mistake and she needs to stay away from situations that will put her in that scenario. All of the men that were there were just as responsible as she was. I will not name call however... it works both ways. the men there... well it is a scary world out there and it sounds like she was taken advantage of. A tape was made as evidence and sent to her boyfriend sounds like the whole thing was staged to me!!!
pricillia Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 how can your life go so bad from one day to another. i picked up every kind of disease from this, this, this......................... I got the results, i am infected with HIV, gono, herpes and hepatitis B, i want to die. Wow it sounds like you should have discussed her intentions before you started dating. If I want to stay healthy I let the person I am dating know that I would like to remain that way and get tested. My heart goes out to you guest! This is not what you deserve.
JamesM Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Okay, not to sound skeptical, but you caught ALL of that from her? If so, then she has been doing alot more guys than just one gangbang. Also, it appears that the two of you are not using any sort of protection if true. That wasn't a wise decision even if she was faithful. By the way, how old are you? How old is she? How did the video come to you...who knew you were her boyfriend? Did she know who took the video? If she caused all of the diseases due to one gangbang, then I have a bridge to sell you. If she has been doing all sorts of guys, then I can see why you will have trouble trusting women. If you have HIV, then you have some bigger problems than worrying about trusting women again. Good luck to you...one way or another.
Walk Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 I'm having a hard time buying this story. Usually people post immediately about a problem. They don't wait weeks. Last time I was tested for STD's, they told me it'd take 5-7 days for the results. And maybe he did wait two weeks to post this... and just got the results of the test. Maybe.... Why would someone send a video tape? How would they know your address? How would they know you? You didn't notice a problem with your .. uh... tool, prior to the tape and think you should get tested for STDs? Which it is possible a person wouldn't have symptoms, but... all of those and you noticed nothing odd with your genitals? Most people don't go around ruining a good thing, so if these guys were getting something from your girl, why would they ruin it by sending a tape? Its was a short post he posted, so perhaps there's more to the story.. But as it stands. I'm not buying it.
doubleint Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 LOL. I hate to say this since this story, if its true, is horrible. And forgive me if im wrong but, I have to agree with Walk on this one.
rina_r Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 how can your life go so bad from one day to another. i picked up every kind of disease from this, this, this......................... I got the results, i am infected with HIV, gono, herpes and hepatitis B, i want to die. I dont believe a word of what he wrote. If he really had HIV, he would not be spending time here on forum but being at the doctor's office.
catgirl1927 Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 Yeah, he had me until he had HIV. I often wonder if the woman-haters on this site don't troll for reactions.
Lisa32 Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 I've been drunk before, and I have never let a guy take advantage of me. Drunk or not drunk...you still know what you're doing. Alcohol lets down your inhibitions and your judgement can be a bit compromised, but only if that what you wanted in the first place. Alcohol is just an excuse. I've never ever cheated on a boyfriend before...drunk or sober, so don't plug all women into one category. This chick you've been dating turned out to be cheap, but she's just one girl. I've had boyfriends cheat on me...does that mean all guys shouldn't be respected...including you?
Rooster_DAR Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 God, I can't believe anybody fell for this post. Like I said in another thread, some kid is playing around trying to get some kicks out of people reactions. Funny!
Rooster_DAR Posted September 20, 2006 Posted September 20, 2006 I still wouldn't mind seeing the tape though!
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