mike1113 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 MY gf and I have been dating for about 16 months. This summer I decided to take a vacation for a month because I have a hard home life and I like to get away. I was very ignorant and didn't realize that my gf would see me leaving home for a month as leaving her for a month. She was apparantly very hurt that I left her, but I didn't know it at the time. While I was gone we often got in fights because I felt she went out with her friends too much and didn't talk to me enough. I eventually realized I was making several mistakes and ended up coming home early to see her. She works 7 days a week during the summer, so right now she has very little time for me, but her job ends today and we plan on spending all next week together before we both move back to our university. The problem is that she said she forced herself to move on while I was gone, and we are now no longer as close as we used to be. Before she had no second thoughts about spending the rest of her life with me, now she is not so sure. My question is if it is possible for her to ever feel that close to me again? We came thisclose to breaking up several times, but we are still together. Right now she is using her last few nights at home to see her friends from work that she will most likely never see again. So basically her friends are coming first at this point, because normally I would go over and see her everynight (she lives about 1.5 hours away). Normally we were always #1 to each other, and temporarily that is not the case. Do I have any hope of recovering my extremely happy relationship?
Rocker_Guy101 Posted August 12, 2006 Posted August 12, 2006 Hey i really feel for you. Im having a really hard time with my girlfriend and id love to know how we could get back to normal. Problems in relationships usually take alot of time to get over. But make sure she knoews you still love her more than anything else and that you'd do anything at all to work through this.
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