MrDemon Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 if u r engaged/married/seeing someone, is it wrong to masturbate over other people?
Walk Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 if u r engaged/married/seeing someone, is it wrong to masturbate over other people? No but you'll grow hair on the palm of your hand. j/k. Only if it potentially robs the other person of enjoying physical intimacy with you. If you aren't denying them that, then I don't see anything wrong with doing it while in a relationship. If you ate all the food in the fridge and your gf came over hungry, then you denied fulfilling her need. However, if you ate all the food in your fridge and your gf was at dinner with her folks... then nothing denied. Just make sure there's food in the fridge for the next time she comes over.
a4a Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I think it depends on who you are masturbating over. Your mother..... problem your MIL......... problem FIL..........problem sibling...... problem guy that works in the cubicle next to you......... could be a problem Your opposite sex roomie......... problem Some hot weather chick who you will never meet up with........no problem.
burning 4 revenge Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I think it depends on who you are masturbating over. Your mother..... problem your MIL......... problem FIL..........problem sibling...... problem guy that works in the cubicle next to you......... could be a problem Your opposite sex roomie......... problem Some hot weather chick who you will never meet up with........no problem. :lmao: a4a, your f*cking hilarious i also want to compliment the OP on his handle, i like that one
soberminded Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Is it wrong to masturbate to God? I find myself doing that sometimes. If your knew your boyfriend masturbates to God would that be grounds to dump him?
SoCalCatman72 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I think it depends on who you are masturbating over. Your opposite sex roomie......... problem *gulp* heh heh (nervous laugh) It was only once, I swear.
CrushedOrgans Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 as long as your not trying to develop some pseudo-relationship in your head or something with someone else, i think it's normal to "get off" by thinking of something different. even when i watch porn, i don't think about having sex with those people, the turn on is the watching.
Fritz Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Some hot weather chick who you will never meet up with........no problem. A guy has to be able to dream...
bluetuesday Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Is it wrong to masturbate to God? I find myself doing that sometimes. If your knew your boyfriend masturbates to God would that be grounds to dump him? what, you offer the jizz up as a gift or you fantasise about god while you're doing it? i'm just asking.
scrybe74 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I don't think it's necessarily wrong to masterbate to other people. You do that when you watch porn, etc. It's just fantasy. I think there is a problem when you actually WANT that person in a real sense and would make the fantasy a reality if you had oppurtunity and the belief that you wouldn't get caught. Then you have a problem and are delaying the inevitable. You need to reevaluate your relationship and look at yourself to see why that is. In other words...it could be a red flag.
FredTravels Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 if u r engaged/married/seeing someone, is it wrong to masturbate over other people? It may not be wrong, but it is impolite and can be quite messy. I suggest that rather than masturbating OVER over people you simply roll over and do it to the side!
Yamaha Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 if u r engaged/married/seeing someone, is it wrong to masturbate over other people? I believe it is wrong if it becomes an obsession. We all dream of someone at times but if the fantasy is always about someone other than your SO then it may be cheating.
whichwayisup Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Is it wrong to masturbate to God? I find myself doing that sometimes. If your knew your boyfriend masturbates to God would that be grounds to dump him? I just snorted from laughing! OH man, that reply is funny! Oh, I pray (or masterbate to) God that you're just jokin'... if u r engaged/married/seeing someone, is it wrong to masturbate over other people? It's normal. But it's just best to keep those thoughts to yourself. Don't tell the person you're dating "what or who" you masterbate to/about. That just opens a can of worms you don't want to deal with...
MsArtful Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 It may not be wrong, but it is impolite and can be quite messy. I suggest that rather than masturbating OVER over people you simply roll over and do it to the side! ..........
MrPot Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Hell no it's not. If you're not allowed to physically touch another person, your imagination is all you have left. NO ONE can take that away from you.
Clone56 Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 I got a question. What is the deal if you never jerked off ever in your life? o.O I never have cause of religious and never really felt the urge to. Is that weird?
Sonic_chaos Posted August 6, 2006 Posted August 6, 2006 personally i dont think its weird, people do it for many reasons. some to release stress, plesure, just because. if its religous and your believes then your intitled to your own believes. And you dont need to answer questions to anyone. Do as you feel natural. Some may not share the same thoughts as me and you could find that in next relationship. Which could be alittle more added pressure to the situation. You choose the route anyway i dont see a problem with it, as long as they stay dreams/fantasy. does depend who it is and what situation tho.. some of these posts are killers
Brittjean06 Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 We all do it. Plus you can't really help it. Its like once you get your mind fixated on something you just can't get it out of your head, even when you know its kind of well naughty? lol and you do it to get you off most importantly haha ^ if you have never " jerked off" eh that word bothers me. I find that strange. But thats me Not even once not even a little bit ? haha
SoCalCatman72 Posted August 7, 2006 Posted August 7, 2006 I got a question. What is the deal if you never jerked off ever in your life? o.O I never have cause of religious and never really felt the urge to. Is that weird? Dude, I totally salute you, as I know that the things I think about when I masturbate are not pure, and though I have maintained abstinence thus far, I wish I could have the same courage of my convictions that you do. As far as the urge, I'm going to go out on a very fragile limb here and say that you must be; a. Very committed to your faith. b. Suffering from a hormone imbalance.
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