MissJ Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 So after 10 years of being with this man... Well we got together when We were 14. Now 10 years later he decides, that we need a break. To become better friends that is. We have NC for about a week after all the "break" mess and he calls to say hello and see how I was. I play it off like all is well. Then a week later same call..... So i ask "what are you really calling for, this isnt helping me move on like you are." He says hes not moving on hes just enjoying his freedom. That I am the woman he wants to marry and have kids with but he thinks we just need some space to figure out personal things and that this is going to be the best thing for us!!! Last weekend "LIKE A DUMMY I CALL HIM" he stops by after WE BOTH had been drinking and of course, a sweet hug and kiss turn into an arguing match and me crying and him leaving pissed at me. So now 5 days later NC!!!!! Could he really just NEVER call me again after 10 years??? Because of one more fight??? So guys any ideas on what this means??? Does he want to get back together and if not Y does he keep saying all of that about being married??? What is my best bet... NC??? And if hes the one who wanted the "break" why is he still calling???? PLEASE HELP
MrPot Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I'd issue an apology if the fight was your fault. After that, I'd back off and pretend I don't want/need him anymore. That'll drive him crazy.
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