worried Posted December 28, 2001 Posted December 28, 2001 WHAT Do you call it when you have to control, manipulate, and lie, to avoid feelings of fear, anxiety, jealousy, abandonment, insecurity, anger, hurt, i guess the list could go on but i think you get the pic.
sparkle Posted December 29, 2001 Posted December 29, 2001 I would call it an anxious, jealous, scared, angry, insecure, hurt and fearful manipulator and liar. Maybe you could explain it better...
worried Posted December 29, 2001 Posted December 29, 2001 welllllll, lets see here: okay when my spouse wants to do something away from me or out of our routine, i feel anxious, fear ful, scared, insecure, angry, etc. as long as things are the same and nothing changes i am just fine, but when something comes up, i find myself trying to control the situation so i wont feel scared, fearful, angry, insecure, etc. i don't know how else to explain it, i hope this helps. I would call it an anxious, jealous, scared, angry, insecure, hurt and fearful manipulator and liar. Maybe you could explain it better...
worried Posted December 30, 2001 Posted December 30, 2001 welllllll, lets see here: okay when my spouse wants to do something away from me or out of our routine, i feel anxious, fear ful, scared, insecure, angry, etc. as long as things are the same and nothing changes i am just fine, but when something comes up, i find myself trying to control the situation so i wont feel scared, fearful, angry, insecure, etc. i don't know how else to explain it, i hope this helps.
Miss Mojo Posted December 31, 2001 Posted December 31, 2001 make an appointment with a doctor who can in turn give you a referral to an appropriate counsellor/psychologist etc. a proper diagnoses of anything cannot be made over the net. speak to a professional. best wishes for the new year
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