spinnelli Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 This is for all of us who insist on reading into our ex's emails or phone calls or texts or IMs. If they contact you out of the blue, or ask about you or even flirt, anything of that sort. 99.9% of the time, they are just being polite. The other 0.1%, they are just making conversation. No one likes to be the bad guy..including our exes. No one wants to intentionally hurt another's feelings. So after they've dumped you, they feel remorse when they see you all broken up and they try to minimize the hurt and pain for you, hence all the "I still want to be friends" or "you can still call me" ..yeah blah. Puhlease. Anything short of "I want to get back together" is just polite conversation that they make mostly out of guilt. So think about that when you want to send that sentimental email to him/her or you just want to break NC this one time.
Returning Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 Anything short of "I want to get back together" is just polite conversation that they make mostly out of guilt. I'd go along with that spinnelli
destination_unknown Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Totally agree! If someone wants you back they will let you know, in no uncertain terms! I've done it. If they don't have the balls to do that, then they don't want ya that bad.
Chinook Posted August 5, 2006 Posted August 5, 2006 Totally agree! If someone wants you back they will let you know, in no uncertain terms! I've done it. If they don't have the balls to do that, then they don't want ya that bad. Yep, I completely agree with this. What makes me laugh is when they do that thing where they're doing as much crying and weeping as you do because it's all so painful for them. Gimme a break! You're still with someone else so knock it off!
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