Kathleen2260 Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 I'm not sure what forum to post this in. My bf TRIED to have an EA with an ex of his. She rejected his advances but not before he lied to me over and over again about their "friendship". He has another ex who he was engaged to and he currently works with. She is married and having problems with her husband (money). She confides in my bf about her problems and frustrations with her husband. He tells me everything that she says to him. I do not have a problem with her. However the other day I asked him why he and that ex broke up (I know how long they dated and that they were engaged about 7 years ago for only 3 months). He told me that they were living together and that he thought everything was fine except they fought a lot about him not spending enough time with her (he works two jobs). He said that they were engaged and one day he came home and their apartment was totally cleaned out, all her furniture and clothes were gone and she'd left him a goodbye note telling him it was over. He said she never gave him a reason and he wasnt' sure why she left. He said they never talked about it but he found out from a friend that she had cheated on him. That she would go out after work with friends and met a guy. So she left my bf. I'm not friends with her so its hard for me to ask HER what the reason was that they broke up but I"m finding this hard to believe becasue she and my bf are still friends today and he and I have been invited to both of her weddings. I'm not sure how this works but first I can not imagine going to one of my ex's weddings especially if I was engaged to him at one point. And if someone cheated on me and just walked out and I came home to all of their stuff gone with no explanation and no discussion I probably would never speak to that person again! I mean she feels they are good enough friends now to confide in him. Also if SHE is the one who cheated why woudlnt 'she have just told him that she was leaving him and then pack her stuff and leave? Why would she be in such a hurry to get the hell out? I mean she didnt' give him any warning. She didn't even tell him to his face, she left him a note that it was over. How strange is that. (they were in their early twenties at the time) I am thinking that maybe he cheated on her or something! He swears he didn't and even says I can ask her but it just doesn't make any sense to me. Why would she be in such a hurry to get out and be so cruel and cold about leaving and now they are friends! Also while they were dating my bf's best friend was killed in a car accident. So she knew that he was going thru a lot (it was about a year earlier that his friend died) so why would she be so heartless about leaving if SHE was the one who did something wrong?? Any insight into this?
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