MissJ Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If you love someone, set them free, if they come back, their yours, if they dont, they never were!!What are your views on this??? Do you believe that this is true??? And if they loved you why would they break up with you and not try working things out TOGETHER??? I mean afterall we have been together for 10 Years???
superconductor Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If you love someone, set them free, if they come back, their yours, if they dont, they never were!! What are your views on this??? Do you believe that this is true??? And if they loved you why would they break up with you and not try working things out TOGETHER??? I mean afterall we have been together for 10 Years??? The verse may look nice on a bookmark or a refrigerator magnet, but it doesn't reflect reality, unfortunately. Even after a decade, people change. Life becomes repetitive, sex becomes a chore (that is, of course, if there's any sex at all), the demands of domesicity crowd their way into what once was intimacy. Nobody said it was easy. If anyone told you that love was easy, they're either lying or a fool. Or both.
Ariadne Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 Hey, What are your views on this??? Do you believe that this is true??? And if they loved you why would they break up with you and not try working things out TOGETHER??? I mean afterall we have been together for 10 Years??? Yes, I think it's true. Sometimes people have other things to do and you have to let them do them. Ariadne
prfrogkisser Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If you love someone, set them free, if they come back, their yours, if they dont, they never were!! What are your views on this??? Do you believe that this is true??? And if they loved you why would they break up with you and not try working things out TOGETHER??? I mean afterall we have been together for 10 Years??? I have to agree with the previous post. When you are in a relationship you have to work at it.But it takes two people to do this. If one is gving up and has fallen out of love it will never work. I dont agree withthis phase at all people it might happen and it might not. How many times has someone left came back and they did the same thing all over again. Relationships are complicated and have to be seen individualy. I found a t shirt that said... If you love him, set him free if he comes back, he's yours If not... HES WITH ME No matter how funny this sounds its so true... Why will you want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you or isnt willing to try?
KittenMoon Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 The quote is 100% true. If someone leaves you, they can either come back... or not. There's not really a third option, is there?
quankanne Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 reminds me of Sting: If you love somebody, set them free. because their happiness matters more than your own when you love a person. Because you understand that you can't just bind someone simply because you want them with you. It has to come freely from that person, and when you feel caged, you can't give your love freely. even after 10 years.
Author MissJ Posted August 3, 2006 Author Posted August 3, 2006 Does it make any sort of difference that when him and I got together I was 14 he, 17?? ANd now we are 24 and 27??? Or I guess you still have NO choice but to let them go huh!!!
BeHappy Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 you need to set him or her free.... if he or she comes back... you may be a different place at the point. Timing is everything. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
HokeyReligions Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Makes about as much sense as Love Is Never Having To Say You're Sorry.
Diver012 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I much prefer my own version... If you love someone set them free. If they come back, they better have one helluva an explanation!!!!! Otherwise, keep on truckin..
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