Charisma Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 I recently was reacquainted with a man I fell in love with a couple of years ago. Things really didn't happen for us then but I recently ran into him and it felt nice talking to him again. He gave me his phone number and told me he'd call me. I'd love to talk to him again and wondered if It's okay for me to place the first call or should I wait for him to call? A lot of guys say they'll call and they don't, so I fear that he won't.
raw_jade Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If he gave you his phone number, that is a good indication that he would like to talk to you again. If he said he would call.....then I would leave the ball in his court. Let HIM call. You never want to seem too eager, guys hate that. good luck
LikkleMissConfused Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 Hey its hard because you probably would like to get the ball rolling, but as raw_jade says let him call you. One thing I have learnt and realised is that when you leave the blokes alone and back off they will actually come to you. That is if they really do want you. And when they do it makes you feel great, wanted and adored. So if he gets in touch he does if he doesn't then no loss just move on.
Author Charisma Posted August 4, 2006 Author Posted August 4, 2006 Why do guys always say they'll call and often don't? If I give him a week to call me, and he doesn't, is it okay to be the first one to initiate things again?
allina Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 If I give him a week to call me, and he doesn't, is it okay to be the first one to initiate things again? You could, however I personally would assume that if he didn't call me within a week he was not interested and would let it go.
Author Charisma Posted August 4, 2006 Author Posted August 4, 2006 Is being over eager a bad thing? We haven't spoken in years and after running into him I actually miss talking to him. I'm not sure what didn't happen years ago will happen now, but I still have these feelings that really never did go away. Am I'm fool to be doing this, since this guy never picked up the phone in two years to call me or should I feel happy that he still has interest after several years?
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