lindya Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 I am a flower. Love me, love my bleeding soul. I am seeing someone else who is friggin awesome for me and you my dear don't mean jack rabbit shyte to me any more.... but thanks for the ego boost is serves me well.... makes me feel hot and randy for my new love. Oh lardy...the unspeakable cruelty...hyperventilating with distress. You, you, you.... Back to eating yoddles and smoking generic ciggies..................where is my Cheerwine soda? ...you have crushed my soul with your casual callousness. In much the way that you used to crush my body with your yoddle-enhanced bulk. Shame on you. Eat some fruit, for goodness sake!
johnnytable Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 I also feel that it is a decision to move on. I also feel that one aspect of NC is that you are standing by your decision and enforcing your decision to do whatever necessary to move on with your life. NC is not out of weakness, but rather out of strengh to get the job done. But don't get me wrong, NC is the least that you can do to move on. Its just the beginning.
Diver012 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 Lets face it, dating sucks sometimes. It hurts when your on the receiving end of rejection. Ive been on both sides of it. Im not proud of some of the things I have said and done, and some of the things I have had happen to me has been hurtful. The way I feel about it all right now... Who really gives a crap about me? Nobody but me thats who. Does that hurt to say? Yes, but its true. Now dont get me wrong. I know I have friends. I know I have loved ones. Im not addressing that. Im talking about companionship. Romantic Love. Someone once loved me. I loved them. In the grand scheme of things, we changed. She fell out of love and the end. I was still in love and it hurts. So what have I learned? Cinderalla does not exist. I though she did but she was a viper instead. I will let the pain be what it is. I will not deny it. One day I will wake up and remember that I forgot about this person. Ill be damned if I let anyone tell me its wrong to hurt. Im stronger and more confident than that. Admit to yourself that its over Deal with the anger, pain, suffering, rejection, dotn deny it cause it will happen... Make improvements in areas that you think you need to Realize that life goes on, and when you ready to move on, you will.
lonelybird Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 <P>I think ppl give advice "move on" is trying to help here. also agree empathy for others feeling need patience and this is very humanity. As for break-up, Now I can easily say to others who is struggling for break-up that "concentrate on your own life, make it more fullfilling, and MOVE ON", because I am not in it right now. But I've been there. so I know and everyone know:) "move on" is right direction. A wiser man said this to me "you cannot chase for love". if a person you love want to break up with you, and you still try to contact her/him and change her/him, this is NOT respect the person's will, and this is NOT love. by thinking of old good times can make us feel the person still in our lifes, but linger at old good times and pain loss her/him will not be good to yourself. and it is very true, self-pity is a bad habit, it will not help you grow as a mature person. and self-pity is a way to give away your own power to outsite world, your own power can make yourself happier. not a paticular Mrs/Mr. Right can make your life happier. The sooner you accept it and move on , the better you will be<BR>Vent is a good place to start maybe, but take a positive attitude and take responsiblity for your own happyness is important for long-term healtyness</P>
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