dfly2006 Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 When the girl at work your in love with always flirts with some other guy, the guy who follows her around, just to make you jealous, or piss you off. Even though you figured out months ago that you weren't good enough to date her, and continue to treat her like nothing but a professional. *****No need to rub it in****** I guess it must be fun for her.....
Asafan Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 maybe you give really bad advice and she is aware of it so does the opposite If that is the case then why does whatever she did NOT take my advice on turn out bad/wrong/exactly like I said EVERY time.
Darkwall Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 The clarity of the message sent is up to the sender, not the receiver. If he (or she) doesn't understand, that's the speaker's fault, not the listeners. ... whether it's 5 words, 5 sentences etc. is not the point or even how well the message is delivered... THE POINT IS some/most men in my experience don't get it PERIOD. Or they say they do and go on to repeat the same mistake(s).
superconductor Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 ... whether it's 5 words, 5 sentences etc. is not the point or even how well the message is delivered... THE POINT IS some/most men in my experience don't get it PERIOD. Or they say they do and go on to repeat the same mistake(s). If they're not "getting it," then you're not speaking their language. Goes for men as well as women; it's not gender-specific. Either that, or it's something that just doesn't matter to them, and they don't give a wee rip one way or the other. Again, it's not about gender, it's just about the way we communicate.
Darkwall Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If they're not "getting it," then you're not speaking their language. Goes for men as well as women; it's not gender-specific. Either that, or it's something that just doesn't matter to them, and they don't give a wee rip one way or the other. Again, it's not about gender, it's just about the way we communicate. If women talking to their S/O about issues in their relationship is making him nuts then the same holds true about men not showing effort and thus making the woman "nuts". Have a read into some of my posts and let me know if I was or wasn't communicating in "their" language.
Shyguy86 Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 Indecision;Using 50 words when 5 will do;Constant whining and moaning about their periods - gawd, you've been dealing with it since you were 13. GET A HANDLE ON IT ALREADY;Not getting the oil changed in the car regularly;Expect men to be clarivoyant;Ask questions with no acceptable answer (eg: Do I look fat in these pants?);Seven different kinds of shampoo, 5 different kinds of conditioner, 4 hair dryers, 6 different kinds of soap;Getting all fancied up to look sexy and provocative, then gets offended when a man responds;Too many shoes, too many clothes. That pretty much sums it up!
superconductor Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 If women talking to their S/O about issues in their relationship is making him nuts then the same holds true about men not showing effort and thus making the woman "nuts". E X A C T L Y If a guy expects his wife to understand where he's coming from, then he's going to have to tailor his message in a way his wife understands. And if a woman expects her man to understand her, she's going to have to speak in a way that he comprehends. It's simple. But it's not easy.
lovestrucksweetie Posted August 3, 2006 Posted August 3, 2006 This is a pretty awesome thread keep it goin and i will keep reading...........
thenabbster Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 some women expect the guy to do everything. its not fair. Not that all women are like this, but a good number of them are. pay for dinners plan the best anniversary she ever had surprising her with gifts all the time basically showing utter and complete chivalry dictionary definition of chivalry: courtesy towards women womens definition: complete subordination and servitude to her majesty
Author HopefulOne Posted August 4, 2006 Author Posted August 4, 2006 some women expect the guy to do everything. its not fair. Not that all women are like this, but a good number of them are. pay for dinners plan the best anniversary she ever had surprising her with gifts all the time basically showing utter and complete chivalry dictionary definition of chivalry: courtesy towards women womens definition: complete subordination and servitude to her majesty Yes, I am sure there are some women out there like that, I however am not but I did date a man once that had to keep telling me not to open my own doors, pay etc. Honestly, it was quite nice to be treated like a lady!!
bluechocolate Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 It seems to be women who do this sort of thing: "Well, you said blah-blah-blah & then did this-and-this and I'm really p*ssed about it!" hmmm..... When did I say & do those things? "1988 - AND YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER!" Well, now do I apologise for something I may have said & did 17 years ago? And remind me again why we're even talking about it?
a4a Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 complete subordination and servitude to her majesty Oh boy now I know what to ask my H for at Christmas!!
tinktronik Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 It seems to be women who do this sort of thing: "Well, you said blah-blah-blah & then did this-and-this and I'm really p*ssed about it!" hmmm..... When did I say & do those things? "1988 - AND YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER!" Well, now do I apologise for something I may have said & did 17 years ago? And remind me again why we're even talking about it? How could you not remember that ? Do you just not care at ALL? hahaha
bluechocolate Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 How could you not remember that ? Do you just not care at ALL? hahaha Clearly not.
SoCalCatman72 Posted August 4, 2006 Posted August 4, 2006 I just thought of another one that really bugs me. When a girl flirts with you constantly, but has no intention of ever going out with you. I mean WTF is up with that, is it like ego masturbation or something?
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