dominsane Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 I guess I am now "coping" with...the breakup... If you dont know already... My fiance broke up with me...three weeks ago...our first anniversay was going to be on the 30th...so yeah. He called while I was 1000 miles away and said he had problems he needed to deal with and that we should break up. I'm only 17...and..well...I lost my virginity to him..and..I've been wanting to..do things...like have sex...but the thing is..that I only want to do it with *him*...I don't think I would find it weird kissing someone else...but I don't think I could have sex with anyone else... I don't know if that's just because I miss him or if it's because I lost it to him..or what... I mean...I understand that we're broken up. We still talk every day(usually at night online..to say 'good night' and such) but every day...I have this urge..and it's only his image that comes to mind and images just pop into my head of us having sex..and...well.. I've tried...let's just say 'everything' to stop it...or...make it go away...but..it won't. And I don't know if it might be a good idea(well...I know it won't) if maybe we had sex, just one more time...but then I know I'll probably want more and...it'll start all over again. So, for now, I have no idea about what to do. That's it.
johnnytable Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 Well for one thing, you can't have sex together. You need time to heal. This could be a lot of time. However, this won't start happening when you are communicating on a regular basis. I don't know the history of your relationship or why you broke up, but I have a feeling that you need to be on your own for awhile without contact with your ex in order to get some perspective and to move forward.
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