timonel Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 I think I'm too complicated. I never try to find simple decisions of my problems, I see problems where other people don't and so on. My question is what woman will be the best spouse to me: complicated or not (having 'take-it-easy' approach to life)? Or maybe I should remain single till the end of my days? Link to post Share on other sites
DaNziNgQuEeN1 Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Sounds like you're picky. I think that a spouse who IS NOT complicated (take-it-easy type) would probably suit you best. Imagine a compicated person with ANOTHER complicated person? That'd probably be chaotic! You should remain single till the end of your days if that is what you WANT. Don't remain single because you are "complicated" and no one satisfies you because then you'll be unhappy and lonely. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 I see problems where other people don't and so on. Maybe you should work on this? Sounds like you exagerate the severity of the problems you encounter, and when people try to give you "simple" solutions, you dont accept them. An easy going person will be able to tolerate this a little longer than a "complicated" person, but it's still going to wear on the easy going person. Instead, try to resolve your own problems instead of depending on other people and realize that some things are not that important to get so bent out of shape. Link to post Share on other sites
vanButterfly Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 I am EXACTLY like that... and others have told me I am too complicated and look for issues where there are none. I feel for you because I am in your shoes. Accept who you are. As you get older you will become more accepting and be picky on things that matter. I am still coming to terms with this and I am 29, but the end of my last relationship really opened my eyes on what is important to be picky about and what is not. Dont go for a complicated spouse. THe two of you will drive each other nuts. Chances are you will look for someone that is the opposite of you. As you make mistakes in relationships you wil learn naturally what is worth being picky about, and what is not. You cant learn when you are not ready. Link to post Share on other sites
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