lovestruck234 Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 Hey, Not sure if any of you remember, but ages ago I put up a thread about wanting to give my bf a strip tease for his birthday...I was going to find the thread but I couldn't be bothered....lol Anyway, carrying on from that, a bit of an update. It is his birthday tomorrow and I am taking the day off work to spend it with him. So, I have come to my final decision....I am NOT going to plan anything. I am going to let the night roll out and if I'm up to it and I'm feeling really frisky (which I'd say I will be), I will just let it happen...it will depend on the circumstance but I am ok with it now and I have pretty much over-come my shy feeling around him...sexually. Does anyone disagree with this decision?? I don't want to just spring it on him randomly for him to go "ah...what are you doing??" cos then I'll feel like a twat...I'm sort of looking for ways to do it... Once I have got going, it won't be a problem, but just getting started....what do I just start slowly dancing and removing clothing or just jump straight into it? Do I get him up and joining in? Do I have him sitting up or laying down? Will he like it? Will he hate it? Will I make an idiot of myself? Will he laugh? (what I'm very much worried about) Should I have the music prepared beforehand? How? I just need a bit of help. It is tomorrow and I still have alot of planning to do for the rest of his birthday, let alone this! Gargh! Thanks to anyone who offers ANY advice!!
Author lovestruck234 Posted August 2, 2006 Author Posted August 2, 2006 I don't mean to be pushy, but his birthday is tomorrow and I'm not going to be on LS tomorrow so I need a little help today if anyone can! Pleeeeease?? Thanks heaps!
amaysngrace Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 Ummm...ok. I'll help a sister out. Choose what you're going to wear. Big button-down shirt with high heels works well. Hip rolls, eye contact, follow your curves with your hands. Eye contact is way important. Figure out what music you want to use today. Pivot on one foot to turn. Practice how you will lower yourself. And get back up again. Look down at yourself from time to time. Just go with it. You'll do fine.
Darkwall Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 How about this... make it a theme that you're seducing him all throughout the evening. So when you're ready to really give him a show he won't be so surprised or shocked. Flirt in more obvious ways than you would normally. He'll be delighted!! When you're ready for HIS show... relax and start off slow. Listen to me like I've done this before. Anyway... relax, slow... start the kissing, caressing and expressing your growing feelings for one another and then maybe start to talk a little naughty and ask him what sort of fun he would like to have on his birthday. Disagree with him and tell him you have an idea of your own. In your sexy heels walk over to the cd player and start the music. Now, walk sexily back to him and ask how the music is making him feel? By now you're comfortable and at ease and ready to GIVE HIM A SHOW. I highly doubt he will be freaked out. More like... grateful and happy as hell. Sexy music. Low cut cleavage. Lip gloss. Perfumed hair. WAs this helpful? I feel pretty hot!!
norajane Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 I've done this before, though with no thought beforehand, so it just happened. We were already sitting on the couch and there was music on the cd player, when I straddled his lap facing him and started kissing him. Then some song came on, I got inspired, and got out of his lap and started the stripping...good times.
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