shepshep1100 Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 It seems nowadays there is a pill on the market for just about everything. why is there no pill to make the pain of a break up go away? My boyfriend of 6 years recently broke up with me, he did this because the girl he was dating while we were seperated for a few months is still pregnant..... .....now i say still because she told him that she had an abortion. but he gets a phone call from her on friday stating that she has decided to keep the baby. it gets better stick with me... Me and myboyfriend had decided about 2 months ago to get back to gether, because we loved each other and wanted to make things work. so we got things to gether an moved into a town home three weeks ago.... so he tells me that shes still pregnant on saturday and tells me he cant bee with me while she pregnant because its wrong to do to her. he feels guilty because he has two other children that do not live with him and now anothe one on the way......and i also found out recently there is a possible other child out there from the break up of 2002. i have a daughter that has been raised by this man which is hard for me to tell her about why were moving right after we just moved in. Luckly she is at her fathers for the summer. so i went and got a place to move in to on friday not even a week after the day he told me, and he wants me gone asap, i think its so he can move her into this place. but the hurt i have inside has turned to anger and when im angry im ok, but when im hurt its horrible, i cant eat every time i do i vomit, im haveing chest tighening, and mini panak atacks. i know i will get over this in time, but i want to get over it now and i want to know how to make this feeling go away. the part that gets me is why would he move me back in with him knowing there was a possiblity of her having this child. i was very happy where i was, i feel he did it to just hurt me.
laRubiaBonita Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 It seems nowadays there is a pill on the market for just about everything. why is there no pill to make the pain of a break up go away? ( It's called alcohol...................... and it come in a 30 pack, no RX required!!!! SWEEEEEEEEEEEEET!!!!!!!!!!!
riobikini Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 SS1100, (I read your post carefully) S-T-O-P subjecting your daughter (and *yourself*) to the very irresponsible and damaging actions (obviously for years) of this man. Not only does it repeatedly disrupt the lives of you and your daughter in many ways, but it also displays potentially damaging role models of authority to her. She sees the part *you* play where you are not only taking him back, -but *running* back to him, i.e. *you* are the one moving in with *him*. Your daughter may begin to think his behavior is really not all that wrong when it comes to choosing a partner for herself someday and accept the behavior as pretty 'normal'. And judging just by your own experience, I imagine you certainly *don't want* that for her. Recognizing that fact alone, should be good indication that you shouldn't be tolerating the situation for yourself, as well. As for yourself, -why do you think he's so wonderful? Why (and leave out the "I love him" part) do you feel he (his behavior) is the very best you can attain or deserve? Loving someone *does* cause us to be a great deal more forgiving and accepting of certain faulty personal traits and behavior, or just plain annoying things, -but it does not mean that we are to allow our core boundaries (the ones that exist to protect us) to be crossed. Take a good look at *your* core boundaries, recognize them, recommit to them, and take back control of your life. Take Care. -Rio
Ariadne Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 Hi, why is there no pill to make the pain of a break up go away? Yeah, there should be something at least. (Other than sleeping pills). But I think this whole love thing is stupid. People shouldn't have to spend the rest of their lives finding that perfect partner. People should have to be made to match, or have some instructions where to go when they grow up. Love shouldn't have to be this hard. Ariadne
blind_otter Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 It seems nowadays there is a pill on the market for just about everything. why is there no pill to make the pain of a break up go away? I believe this pill is called "Valium".
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