can'tbuyabucket Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 Alright, my gf and i have been together for a little over a year. It's a long distance relationship, we live three hours away from each other. about 2 months ago i've noticed her acting a little differently. She just started this internship at that time and it was her first real working experience. It really stressed her out, i mean she would come back tired as hell, falling asleep early, all of that. about 3 weeks ago, i moved up here also for an internship, so i could be closer to her. i've only seen her twice during the first week. after that first week we got in a big fight. that day she was complaining about how tired she was when she was at work and then when she came back home a friend of hers (a guy who she hasn't seen in a while) wanted to hang out. she suddenly had a jolt of energy to go hang out with this dude, while she no longer gets a jolt of energy to hang out with me. she comes home at 1 and says they were catching up and apparently the dude just broke up with his gf. i trust my gf, i know she would never do anything to like that, she was always very loyal to me, however i do admit i get jealous sometimes. i freaked out and flipped out on her. we didn't talk for a week until i finally broke in and texted her. usually when something goes wrong she is the first to come to me as i am very stubborn. while we talked it came out how i felt like she hasnt been the same lately, and she finally came out with the bomb that she felt pressure and confusion and all this. at first it seemed like it was all good and that we would get back together, she just wanted some space. she then later began to say that if it was meant to be then it'll be. she says she still loves me, i asked if she's still in love with me and she says she thinks she still does. i asked her what our status is and she says she doesn't know. so here i am with a woman who knows nothing about anything while i cry myself to sleep some nights. never ever would i have expected her to pull one of these things, she was always the type that knew what she want. she's entering her last year at school, and i think perhaps this is happening because she's facing some crossroads. she doesn't have a straight answer for whether or not she pictures herself with me in the future. We were a very happy and loving couple. we both had sex with each other for our first times. it kills me to not know what the future brings and to think that she might have fallen out of love with me. i asked her if she wants to date other people and she said she is not thinking about that right now. at first i cried and looked like a desperate fool, however i've backed off and tried to take my mind off of things. i believe this woman is my significant other. i mean she is the woman of my dreams. she would be the one to always start up the wedding talk and i started believing in it too. the first week after she told me about this she called me every night, when we met she started acting cutisie with me yet when i leave she doesn't look back like she used to. ahh its very confusing. she no longer calls every night however she im's me everyday. i no longer initiate any conversations. i've been reading this thing and alot of peoples situations are similar to mine, however i couldn't take it anymore and felt that i had to see what people thought of my situation. thank you
Author can'tbuyabucket Posted August 1, 2006 Author Posted August 1, 2006 I have also been playing the supportive guy, there when she needs me.
tanbark813 Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 I have also been playing the supportive guy' date=' there when she needs me.[/quote'] Well first off, stop doing that. Just start moving on. Secondly, you'll get more responses if you break up your post into paragraphs.
Author can'tbuyabucket Posted August 2, 2006 Author Posted August 2, 2006 Alright, my gf and i have been together for a little over a year. It's a long distance relationship, we live three hours away from each other. about 2 months ago i've noticed her acting a little differently. She just started this internship at that time and it was her first real working experience. It really stressed her out, i mean she would come back tired as hell, falling asleep early, all of that. about 3 weeks ago, i moved up here also for an internship, so i could be closer to her. i've only seen her twice during the first week. after that first week we got in a big fight. that day she was complaining about how tired she was when she was at work and then when she came back home a friend of hers (a guy who she hasn't seen in a while) wanted to hang out. she suddenly had a jolt of energy to go hang out with this dude, while she no longer gets a jolt of energy to hang out with me. she comes home at 1 and says they were catching up and apparently the dude just broke up with his gf. i trust my gf, i know she would never do anything to like that, she was always very loyal to me, however i do admit i get jealous sometimes. i freaked out and flipped out on her. we didn't talk for a week until i finally broke in and texted her. usually when something goes wrong she is the first to come to me as i am very stubborn. while we talked it came out how i felt like she hasnt been the same lately, and she finally came out with the bomb that she felt pressure and confusion and all this. at first it seemed like it was all good and that we would get back together, she just wanted some space. she then later began to say that if it was meant to be then it'll be. she says she still loves me, i asked if she's still in love with me and she says she thinks she still does. i asked her what our status is and she says she doesn't know. so here i am with a woman who knows nothing about anything while i cry myself to sleep some nights. never ever would i have expected her to pull one of these things, she was always the type that knew what she want. she's entering her last year at school, and i think perhaps this is happening because she's facing some crossroads. she doesn't have a straight answer for whether or not she pictures herself with me in the future. We were a very happy and loving couple. it kills me to not know what the future brings and to think that she might have fallen out of love with me. i asked her if she wants to date other people and she said she is not thinking about that right now. at first i cried and looked like a desperate fool, however i've backed off and tried to take my mind off of things. i believe this woman is my significant other. i mean she is the woman of my dreams. she would be the one to always start up the wedding talk and i started believing in it too. the first week after she told me about this "break" she called me every night, when we met she started acting cutsie with me yet, when i leave she doesn't look back like she used to. ahh its very confusing. she no longer calls every night however she im's me everyday. i no longer initiate any conversations. i've been reading this thing and alot of peoples situations are similar to mine, however i couldn't take it anymore and felt that i had to see what people thought of my situation. i know this is long and i apologize, i still have left alot out. thank you
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