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Different types of break ups

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Yes new name. I am unable to log in with my other names..

 

This has been my first break up( its been a year ) and its that type of break up where your ex gets a new girlfriend ( who are engaged now ) so their are not only hurt feelings there but also hate. This girl happen to blog about me in her myspace( I will not revisit that site) and it brought back all these old feelings. Another big setback. Though I will get over it quicker now. I just have these feelings that were brought back those hateful revengful feelings. I'm sure all breakups hurt, but these also consist of some what jealousy SO much anger and just dealing with the ex's new girlfriend really hurts.

 

does everyone have to deal with these types of break ups?? Im sure more than once. This just stresses me out of what she blogged about telling me to move on. Shes obviously hearing bull crap and gossip....how hurtful..

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Yes new name. I am unable to log in with my other names..

 

This has been my first break up( its been a year ) and its that type of break up where your ex gets a new girlfriend ( who are engaged now ) so their are not only hurt feelings there but also hate. This girl happen to blog about me in her myspace( I will not revisit that site) and it brought back all these old feelings. Another big setback. Though I will get over it quicker now. I just have these feelings that were brought back those hateful revengful feelings. I'm sure all breakups hurt, but these also consist of some what jealousy SO much anger and just dealing with the ex's new girlfriend really hurts.

 

does everyone have to deal with these types of break ups?? Im sure more than once. This just stresses me out of what she blogged about telling me to move on. Shes obviously hearing bull crap and gossip....how hurtful..

 

Is there a good chance that you have not moved on and in RL you are talking about them to people that will repeat what you say? Mutual friends?

 

I posted this to a different thread:

BJ not to be cruel but it has been a year.. he is getting married or they claim they are. There is not a whole lot you can do. If they are posting nastiness about you the best response is to either ignore it or simply ask them to stop as you have moved on and wish them happiness.

 

If it is any indication from your posting here about him and your obsession of him for all this time(1 year) do you think in RL they got wind of your thoughts about him and thus posted such things in a blog? Perhaps they see that you are logging onto her/his website??? Not sure how those things work.......

 

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You know my H's X from over 15 years (HS sweetheart) ago stalked us via friends and by posting on websites including our own....... he finally had to just be outright nasty to her to get her to stop........ are you doing such things in this case?

 

She went nutso when she found out he was getting married as well.....turned up the heat so to speak. Ran her mouth to his family and to our friends via phone and in person over it...... have you done anything to provoke this blogging of theirs?

 

Just curious. :)

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Well what I think happen is that she came to my site read some of my blogs and stuff I had wrote about him, But it was one blog and it was talking about How I am over him. Personally she said stuff she shoulden't have said from the get go and now I posted a blog on her. I don't care how it makes me look Im sick of trying to be the bigger person, I will stand up for my self. She had no right to make false assumptions on my behalf. Yes it has been a year and I have been doing fine. I don't care if their getting married but it just irriate me that she thinks I have not moved on yet. I don't care what other people tell her ITS not true. People are really only out to hear the bad things about people. I dropped it though. I haven't gone to her myspace I wont. and they can think whatever they want about me not moving on. I have not called that kid in a year and that should speak more than what they are hearing. Its just all these feelings of hate have submerged . But I will get through this I hate drama though, it really makes me feel lousy and especially this type of drama that I've never had this type, which is so surreal and a really lousy feeling. But i got passed it when all this happend and will from this. Thanks for your advice! I really don't want them to think I am stalking them. But since I know I'm not I feel good about that.

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BJ, this is your first break up, so.... there's a first thing for everything. My breakup was also a first for me. It feels like the world has ended... life stopped... everything went dead... that was four months ago. Now she's dating someone :), o well. BJ why are you being angry over someone that's not even WORTH being angry over? You're young, 18 right? Live it :), you have a WHOLE LIFE ahead of you, don't waste it :).

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THANKS bATT! I nkow I am very young but I really can't help how I feel. Though I can proudly say I know I will get over this. I am doing wonderful as of right now and have hope that things will only get better! haha the first time does suck because you really don't have any reasurance of getting over it. You just don't know. But thanks!

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how many screenames are you gonna post under?

 

if i remember correctly, you have been whining over and over the same thing for about 9 months now...get over it.

 

moreover, the verb to mean, is spelled as so, and not meen.

 

lastly, if you are to invent new screenames, find other more original variant and not an abbreviation of your old one.

 

oh the youth today...

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Im going through the same a u BJ but my ex started cing this girl 1 Week after we broke up and i new it would happen coz they fancied each other while i was still going out with him, it hurts like hell he was my 1st love and apparantly ur 1st love is the hardest 2 get over

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Hey sickkitty! Has it been a year for you as well? Yeah see my ex started going out with this girl a week later and are engaged now. I try to look at it like this. Their both very young they have theyre whole life ahead of them to endure some pain. Though I am only hoping for my own hapiness right now. I have been happy but I have my downs and lows but I am really trying. Its sad though because his new girlfriend thinks I treated him like crap but um I did typical girl stuff he did syko crazed stuff. Can't compare. So she can think what she wants! It takes a while and the only reason why its so hard sometimes is because its the first time and you really don't know whats going to be at the end of this. But this I know that things do get better and time does help alot. It has done wonders for me honestly. So imagine what some more time can do. Everyone has their first loves and your ex won't last forever. Its very uncommon for people to any ways.

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Yep, first love hehhe. We're both young... both trying to get over our 1st love.... be nice if u were down here in texas ;) lol.

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