sickkitty Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 iv tried my hardest 2 try and get over my ex. Its been 1 month and 2 weeks since he broke up with me since then i cant stop thinking about him as soon as i get up ubtil the time i go 2 sleep i cant stop crying, i am so alone (literally) i have a handful of friends who only call me when they want to go out and my mom and i dont get on, she constantly treats me like a child im 20 and she wants to no my every move and picks at the things i do im waiting to get therapy but it could tale months until i get an appointment. im hurting so much right now im at my lowest with no one to confide in i dont no how 2 go on like this, its killing me Thanx 4 listening guys x amanda xx
mariJane Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 did you get closure?? if you didnt get closure call and tell him off or something... more information please?
KittenMoon Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 It hasn't been that long, hon. You're still working through things. It's frustrating, I know, but give it more time.
Brittjean06 Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 Only a month! well if it makes you feel better it has been a year for me , hope that doesn't scare you! but I think sometimes we don't get over stuff because we are stuck in the moment and nothing else has changed either in your life yet. But you will get over it just Like I will . I'm letting my self and hopefully its not a fake front of mine Are you surprised that you can't get over him in a month?
Guest Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 my boyfriend lied to me for two whole months before telling me all that he did. what he didnt tell me was that there was a 3rd party. i thought i wouldnt get over him but knowing how much he did to protect himself, i let him go. he was my first and he hurt me badly. i know i'm supposed to be strong about it. on the exterior, i look ok and getting along well with stuff in life. but the reality is i'm just keeping myself very very busy so that i will not think of him and that i'll move on with life. i dunno when i can really forget him but he's really made me very afraid of guys and of loving anyone again. i totally emphathise with you, coz we're in the same situation but i believe that if you put your heart and energy into something positive, it doesnt matter if you work yourself super hard at it, at least it will reward you in the end. unlike guys, who'll break your heart in the end.
Author sickkitty Posted August 2, 2006 Author Posted August 2, 2006 I didnt think id get over him i a month but i thought it would hurt a damn sight less lol i think im hurting far more because i have no 1 he was my life and i thought he understood me he told me yesterday that he still finds me attractive but he is happy the the choice he made, but he is not over me! So im gonna try my best 2 move on and be happy, i no he is never coming back I dont no what i would do with out all u guys on LS u have been so much help with all ur advice ) Amanda xx
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