Cherokee21 Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 So heres the story ..... I'm 19, I'm in college and 4 months ago I work at a hardware store basically just with a bunch of guys. I had just broken up with my very abusive boyfriend and was having a hard time with it.... when a decently hot, VERY cocky marine corps guy who had been chasing me since the 1st day when we started together, asked for my number. We talked a little, about my situation and his.... he had just gotten out of a 4yr with a kid (whom he can't see)....and i was emotional and getting over my bf.... so he mentioned we just use each other as a booty call. Well hes very sweet, I know he has good intentions. But I get kinda skeptical.... He kept warning me not to fall for him. But then, he suddenly got clingy with me...asking me to go on his lunch with him, to come over like EVERY DAY and not just late at night anymore. And we actually talked about things all the time, and shared stuff about our lives. He started saying he loved me early on, through texts... and I thought, "typical player"..... But then he started saying to my face, looking in my eyes. And he almost cried once telling me i really am beautiful.....in a low voice...ya know like he meant it. Well, basically he ended up just RUNNING from me...just ignoring me....slowly cutting off the calls....the worst thing you could do. He found a new girl, ignored me for a month....did the same thing with her. Never stopped to talk to me at work anymore....then i lost my job at the store, and he quit 1 week after that...... But one of the last times I saw him was one night when I spilled a drink on 2 of his phones from ebay and his laptop. I bought him a new phone. But still only got those "still love you" texts here and there. Knowing I couldn't have him only made me want him more, of course. But a week ago, He sent me really nasty text thanking me for frying his computer because he lost pics of his daughter. Despite how rude he was about it, I swallowed my pride and I told him I'd replace it. And I truly felt bad. Well, My friends are all telling me that hes just stringing me along because I'm a nice girl with no self esteem. And people also say all the time that I have to be the hottest thing hes ever touched and he knows it, so he just tried to tap into my emotions and make me want him more... But I cant help but think that he did fall for me, like he said and he just ran because he was scared.....? And I don't know what to think, did he do me wrong and switch things up to keep me as his hollaback girl.... you know, between girlfriends and such. He said he wanted to stay single but now hes suddenly in a relationship with this girl who seems VERY naive from what people say?? He always sends he these cheesy meaningless comments on myspace like "O I'm so glad to be enjoying my life with you" and he met her like 2 weeks ago. And he texted to me "Shes great and I wouldn't want neone to replace her"....basically DISSING me completely So basically, is he just trying to string me along.....? Should I replace the laptop?? (I want to but don't want to regret it either) And could he have fallen for me and ran or is that what he wants me to think?? And why does he have a new girl who he labels as a gf??? That just shocked me! Maybe its a girl that he can actually respect......
Recommended Posts