corny1 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago and she keeps calling me to come over and see my dog. She does say that her 7 year old daughter is the one who keeps saying she wants to see the dog. This girl is the one who gave up on me and now I do not want to ever see or hear from her again. I called her and told her to get her stuff out of my house and to simply disappear from my life. She has done nothing but bring pain and heartache into my life and I dont think she deserves to be any part of my life any longer. Is this too harsh? I dont feel like she deserves anything from me ever again. Any comments?
wonderingmind Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Well, I wonder what's really going on here.... 1.) The ex is using the child as a reason to keep seeing you. That is sick and twisted. 2.) The ex hasn't figured out that one of the duties parents hold is helping their children cope with loss (ie., missing a dog). Either way, it's not good. The next time she calls, tell her NO and mean it.
hurtingurl09 Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 I don't think that's too harsh. I did the same thing! He was hanging out with another girl and when i told him to stop he never so i said goodbye and just stopped talking to him alltogether. It helped me sooo much!! We had been on and off again but he had never hurt me this much. The other times we had stayed friends and id fallen for him again, but this time it helped me move on not talking to him. So if she hurt you that bad then her not being in your life really is the best way to move on.
TattooedPrincess Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago and she keeps calling me to come over and see my dog. She does say that her 7 year old daughter is the one who keeps saying she wants to see the dog. This girl is the one who gave up on me and now I do not want to ever see or hear from her again. I called her and told her to get her stuff out of my house and to simply disappear from my life. She has done nothing but bring pain and heartache into my life and I dont think she deserves to be any part of my life any longer. Is this too harsh? I dont feel like she deserves anything from me ever again. Any comments? Nope not harsh at all. Why would it be? You did say she gave up on the relationship. I think she is pretty sick. She uses her daughter as an excuse to see the dog. Apparently she gets some kind of sick kick back! I wouldn't put up with such stuff because if you actually find someone you can really click with your exgirlfriend is going to be in the mits of it. If there is nothing to salvage cut her off. It is not your responsibilityto abide to her daughter and if her daughter gets hurt in this it is her fault not yours.
Ariadne Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 Hi, Is this too harsh? I dont feel like she deserves anything from me ever again. Any comments. Seems like the kid needs a bit of time to adjust. She is just a child. And if the girl asks to see the dog I think it's important. Ariadne
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