DawnMN73 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Hello All Something has been on my mind a bit & i was looking for some advice so i came here. I have been dating this great guy for a little over 5 months now. He is great & we get along great. He is tall, good looking, has a great job, his own house, very close with his family, treats me great, caters to me, cooks me dinner ALL the time, doesn't lie, would never cheat, etc. However, there is 1 thing about him that bothers me a bit. I noticed over the months that he is a slight hypocondric. His father died at a young age, 52. His mom has had so many things happen to her over the years, like got diabeties, triple bypass surgury, gall bladder removed, 4 eye surgeries, & a few other things that i can't remember. He is 41 years old & has seen what happened to his parents, that now he is so paranoid that something it going to happen to him. He's not a full blown hypochondric, he doesn't go running to the doctor or anything like that, he just says things to me. Would this bother u at all? There are so many pluses in my man, & this one negative thing. Trust me, I myself am not perfect!
abitconfused Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 MMMMMM. I guess I would try to work with him and maybe try to comfort him with the fact he does not have any problems. Tell him how much it bothers you. Explain how you love him and will be there for him. If he trys to lead a healthy life then his had done all he can. Unfortunatly we can't decide our faith so we should live every day as if it were the last. Try to change the subject or give him other things to take his mind off it if it comes up.
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