calworld Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 My ex and I seperated for a year and she now is getting married with the dude that stole her from me. I am feeling sad on and off for the past week now. Maybe I still have some lingering feelings about her? Should I contact her and tell her that I still love her?
magichands Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Stole is an interesting word, dude. Do you see her as your property?
Author calworld Posted July 31, 2006 Author Posted July 31, 2006 I said stole because I was on vacation while she started dating that guy.
In Sync Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 magichands was correct...'stole' is a curious choice of words. anyway, the dude didn't steal her from you. no one put a gun to her head to start dating him and apparently she's pretty happy because she is choosing to marry him...so why on earth would you think to contact her...Get a life of your own. It's not sadness you are feeling it's your own wounded ego that can't handle reality and part of reality is accepting that you may not be the 'one' in your ex's life.
Mollyanna Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 CalWord, my ex is getting married next weekend to the girl he left me for. And even though he treated me like crap and cheated on me with her, I STILL have a hard time with this wedding. I'm jealous. But I never want to be treated that way again and I could never trust him. But I'm jealous anyway. But what would contacting him get me? Just another shot of rejection. You are going to get the same. She probably knows you love her already. You saying it before her wedding day isn't going to change her mind. I'm sure he says he loves her too. Hang in there. I know how difficult it is. PS, I also say she STOLE him away from me. It is easier to hate her than him. I idealized him. If he was so bad and I loved him, what does that say about me? MUCH easier to hate her than myself.
In Sync Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Hatred and Jealousy are unattractive qualities in anybody. You can't them. Before settling for that as a mode for a remedy keep in mind those same qualities also repel people.
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Wow thats weird. The guy I have been broken up with for one year is getting married to his girlfriend who he has been with for a year. The only reason I am upset is because she wrote about me on a blog dedicated to me telling me he never loved me and too move on. I was frantic!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF SHE ONLY NEW!!
Ariadne Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Well, The guy I love is not getting married but is engaged which is almost the same. I also say that she stole him from me, because she told me to go for him because she didn't love him and was never going to love him etc etc and then changed her mind like an idiot. And I'm not upset, but she also wrote about me in her blog. Why do they do that? Ariadne
a4a Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Well, And I'm not upset, but she also wrote about me in her blog. Why do they do that? Ariadne They are insecure about their relationship still is one reason. If an X is stalking them in some odd way I can see why they may write about it as well as a message to the X to go away. Show that they are united in their thoughts on the X. H and I have been X stalked..... but I did not publically display my dislike for her.. just allowed her to make an ass out of herself by letting her tantrum and writings be her own downfall. What an idiot she was being.....
westernxer Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Should I contact her and tell her that I still love her? Why would you want to do that?
a4a Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Why would you want to do that? Most likely she will laugh in your face and make you feel even worse. There is no point in contacting the X when it is clear by their actions of becoming engaged or married they have indeed moved on without you.
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 My ex is getting married to?? and his girlfriend happen to blog about me too. I was pretty upset over that and wrote a blog about her, Yes I went on and on. Do I feel low and immature no not at all I had to say what I felt just don't ever make this blogging a daily thing Blog once about it to fight back and end of story.
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