PeanutHead88 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 For all of you who don't know well I am aslo britney jean06. I went to her new myspace, YES YES I know I shoulden't have. and they are getting married after a year of being together after we broke up. She happen to write about me saying he never loved me and too move on? I defiently bloged back and wrote SO MUCH stuff that is the truth. The guy that I was " in love with " was sociopathic YES HE WAS. and he went out with her in 8th grade used her and she thought they were in love. So she is telling me I treated him like crap. I was blown away by what she wrote . I saw a pic of him and honestly it made me sick. Not because I love him but I really don't right now. All I feel for that kid is hate and sickness. I think this will help me move on honestly. The past haunts me and its not a normal past. I shoulden't coulden't believe she wrote about me, if she only new...GRRR pretty numb right now you know the feeling right
loveinlife Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 It must be an odd situation to talk to your ex's new mate. I could understand your hate on her for posting about you and your personal life on myspace. However, it is what she is saying, like you said she doesn't know the whole truth. Truth is seen and felt by the observers who were there, anything else is only crumbs. For her to talk **** about you on myspace is really low. Somehow I feel that she is hurt too. Good Luck!
mariJane Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 you did the right thing, see atleast you said your peice its good for your soul! right! so **** em! cuz you will move on and obviously they will still be talking bout you down the road, cuz the truth does win alwayz, you've got that on your side, so you can move on now!!!!! ya, i wish you the best , get on!!
Guest Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 If they were truly happy together, she wouldn't write about you. They would both be indifferent towards you. I don't know what's going on there, but my guess is that relationship/marriage is doomed to fail. They don't need you to do any damage there, they seem very succesful in doing that themselves. Anyway, it doesn't really matter what they're up to. For some reason you are getting under her skin, take it as an ego-boost, but try to leave it at that from now on? You are grieving for the man your ex didn't turn out to be, not for the man he is. Be glad she took him off your hands. While she's stuck with him, you've got every chance finding a better relationship. Take that chance! How about internet-dating? You don't have to do that to find a partner but to find some distraction and maybe make new friends along the way?
Guest Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 I forgot to say. By reacting the way you did, I'm afraid you've showed them you still care. Don't give them that satisfaction again!
KittenMoon Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Brit- this sounds great! Two less crazies in the world available to you and us! You know what this guy is really like. Laugh at the bullet you dodged and she took in the heart instead.
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Thanks for all the advice!! I know but honestly you would care too if someone wrote false information. I just had to make it clear and if it makes me look like an idiot well Atleast I got my words across. I coulden't sleep at all Im hoping this will pass and I can eventually move on with this. But even if I didn't care I thnk i would still write all this stuff, it really put me in rage! but trust me I got my point across. Thanks though, I guess I can try online dating, I really am moving on this time you have no idea how much of a push that was actually, thought I feel like total crap I didn't cry did i?haha no
Author PeanutHead88 Posted July 31, 2006 Author Posted July 31, 2006 Thanks! This will only make me stronger and I will not pinn over this any longer. I am hurt I admit but I said what I had to say thanks guys alot!
mariJane Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 thats it too , you said your peice, it really helps to put the anger where it belongs. i dont care what people think you know, you gotta take care of yourself, **** what everyones going to think, you took care of you and vented and that helps the healing, good!!
Brittanyjean06 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 haha thanks mari Jane. Im so sick of trying to be the better person she really had no right to post a blog like that. So I will keep this blog up as long as it needs to be up.
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