wintercs Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Well I'm posting this on Monday morning just before 1am which should tlel you that I haven't been able to get to sleep....because I've been thinking about her and it has been driving me a little bit nuts. I feel like I read a post one time that mentioned something to the effect that Sundays were always the toughest days of the week - but why? Why are Sundays so difficult? Sunday was the day that my ex dumped me, but I don't think that has anything to do with it, unless its on a subconcious level. This past week was a semi-good one for me, certainly better than some of the others but today just had me all screwy thinkin about her and how much I miss her. Pathetic, yes - but true. Anyone have any thoughts as to why Sundays suck so much?
johnnytable Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 I'm not sure, but I have the same feeling. I think it might be because Sundays are often less stressful and the days that you remember having a nice time with your ex. I think that Sundays in general are the days that I tend to remember throughout my life. But you are right, they seem to be the most difficult.
jimmy20013 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 I am kinda like you. 21st of every month is the hardest for me because that used to be our anniversary date and we used to celebrate our anniversary every mmonth. So I know what you mean. I guess since you guys broke-up on Sunday, sub-conciously your mind replays the events of that day and maybe thats why you struggle so much. I know what you are going through because I am struggling with the same thing but as you said, "There is always sunshine after the rain".
Guest Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 I actually have often used the saying "When you are single Saturdays are the best and Sundays are the worst" I think it's because on Sundays alot of us would like nothing more than to cuddle up with a special someone and chill.
Guest Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 I think Sundays are always the worst because everyone is recovering from the weekends and not really doing much so you have more time to sit and think. But thank goodness football is starting soon.
MickieJ Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 Until I read this post...I never really thought about it. But last Sunday my 8 yr relationship ended (with 2 yrs of LDR). Then I thought back to my marriage...and it also ended on a Sunday...the day I told him he had to leave. But for the most part, I think Sundays represent a time for family, and a time to relax and chill before another week of grind. Even though both of my relationships ended on Sunday...I guess I don't view the day as a day of gloom. Don't get me wrong, I am still reeling from last Sunday...and oddly sometimes something will pop into my brain that recalls brings all the emotion that I dealt with as my marriage broke apart. They say time heals all wounds, and I think that is right...and even though a wound heals, you might still see a scar or two. I hope you can get beyond the difficulties of the day.
BannaBee57 Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 Yup, my relationship ended on a Sunday too. It's hard for me because I don't work and all my friends are either recovering from the previous night or hanging out with their SO. So, I end up feeling really alone and my mind creeps back to the sadness ~Breanna
Guest Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 Yeah, my relationship ended on a Sunday too around 1 a.m., Good thing i work on Sundays, so i'm a little distracted. Anyway, maybe sunday's give the person doing the dumping, which wasn't me, time to come to the conclusion and build up the strength without any distractions of the work week. Also, they probably know both of you will have time to talk on a Sunday. I don't know but something is wierd when everyone is getting dropped on the day of rest and worship.
Jaded-Arie Posted September 6, 2006 Posted September 6, 2006 I don't know but something is wierd when everyone is getting dropped on the day of rest and worship. ROFLMAO!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :lmao: :lmao: Ok, that was funny. I was also dumped on a Sunday Night. Sundays are difficult for me not because I was dumped on a Sunday, just remembered that bte, but because they are a time to relax with Family, SOs and chill.
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