Guest Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 If you have been cheated on before, what were some of the excuses your spouse or S/O gave you if you were suspicious or questioned them? Classic lines like, "I love only you, I would never cheat on you." Or, When would I have time to mess around, I'm to busy." Things like that. Whats some excuses they gave you, but then you later on found out they were in fact cheating.
stoopid_guy Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 "I'm just sore from horse riding." :lmao: And that could be used by a woman or a man.
Last Mohegan Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 "It doesn't matter what I say....you'll believe what you want regardless"
Guest2 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 if a h tells his w that he loves her more than life itself, that she is his everthing, that he always has and always will love her more than anything and thinks about her all the time but STILL cheats, what does that mean? we're talking about a 13 yr marriage and h being away a lot on business. can you truly love someone and still cheat on them?
wonderingmind Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 "You know what they say, the one doing the accusing is the guilty party"
Last Mohegan Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 I've never heard that saying before... they're trying to difuse the question by saying your are guilty of it yourself? That's a new one! "You know what they say, the one doing the accusing is the guilty party"
NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 "I was drunk" "I was missing you" "I'm not used to attention off women and i just got carried away with it" "She reminded me of you" "I can't remember" "I just went along with it" "It was nothing really" "You weren't around and i was horny" and then there's "I don't know why i did it" - wtf of course you know!!! you wanted to thats why you did it!!! woah this thread is making me angry....lol
Trimmer Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 I've never heard that saying before... they're trying to difuse the question by saying your are guilty of it yourself? That's a new one! It's just a minor twist on "the best defense is a good offense..." Whenever I would confront my wife with embarrassing factual information about what she was doing, she would try to deflect it by getting mad at me for looking on her cell phone, prying into her stuff, etc... Not that I am particularly proud of any of that stuff, but the anger in response tends to throw you off guard, and off the main point... Me: "Hmmm, there's a text message here that says he wants to be in the shower with you, signed 'Love Xxxx' " Her: "How dare you look at my messages!!!"
queenbee930 Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 "I don't know who that is. They probably think I'm someone else." Sure I believe that. I mean she knows your full name, my full name, your phone number and e-mail address. And for someone you don't know u sure were talking to her for a long time. And your IMing her regularly. I must have STUPID written on my forehead!
justice Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 When the excuses didn't work my h did the complete denying it B.S. which made me even madder still because it made it seem like I was just imagining things. When you're caught you're caught buddy!! And thats what I told him.
SweetBabyJ Posted August 2, 2006 Posted August 2, 2006 "I was missing you" "You gave the cat more attention than me" "I only needed her to lean on, someone to support me" "She needed someone to talk to" "She suspected her husband was having an online affair"
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