Trimmer Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 I saw another thread here on the question of whether people are truthful when they are drunk. Maybe people are more themselves when drunk. In other words, if you are generally truthful, you become more openly, loosely truthful when your inhibitions are lifted. If you are used to lying, then lying gets even easier when your inhibitions are lifted. In light of all this, I wonder what he told his wife after he staggered home? Alcohol-induced Truth? Uninhibited Lie?
owcanbhppy Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 posted by trimmer: "Maybe people are more themselves when drunk. In other words, if you are generally truthful, you become more openly, loosely truthful when your inhibitions are lifted. If you are used to lying, then lying gets even easier when your inhibitions are lifted." i respectfully disagree. if one is being, 'more themselves', then lying isn't happening. lying is being something other than yourself, being yourself is speaking/behaving from what is really going on in one's mind, thoughts, feelings. jmo
1Yoyo Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 Good luck with that, I think on some level, the MM are truthful. All the best. 1Yoyo
Trimmer Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 i respectfully disagree. if one is being, 'more themselves', then lying isn't happening. lying is being something other than yourself, being yourself is speaking/behaving from what is really going on in one's mind, thoughts, feelings. jmo Yeah, I see your point. So, you think he went home and revealed his true self, his thoughts, feelings, to his wife?
Author sassiex Posted November 16, 2006 Author Posted November 16, 2006 true .....wont ask him to leave his wife, dont want him to what i want is to see more of him! sometimes it goes weeks without seeing him.....thats what hurts am i being stupid
Author sassiex Posted November 16, 2006 Author Posted November 16, 2006 is it wrong of me to settle for this ??? do i need therapy ?
puddleofmud Posted November 17, 2006 Posted November 17, 2006 You are probably a very sweet girl who is excited about love and all its possiblities. Do you have an historical "pattern" of attracting or being with the "wrong" kind of men who pay dramatic attention to you without the benefit of being loyal to you and only you? If the answer is yes; maybe therapy would help. If this was a one time thing where you felt special for a moment and then looked back on it and realised it was ONLY a "moment" then, no, you are just following human nature. There are a million SINGLE guys who would love to kiss you in a bar in front of all their friends/ or strangers soley for the benefit of showing you off as his gorgeous love. By all means, do show off--do it often and confidently as a woman who repects HERSELF. By this I do not mean wearing your shortest skirt or putting your breasts on display. Do so with your SMILE and your wit and charm. Charm every man in the bar and walk out without one. Have fun, darling and let the best man win as you are a prize not a "pint for the night". Happy Hours to you!
Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Do you know how many men have told their bartenders they love them after a night of drinking? Lots. I bet the bartenders aren't all giddy about it in the morning. Well, most of them anyway.
herenow Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I bet he is sober by now. Why don't you talk to him about this and get the real truth?
HarleysAngel Posted November 21, 2006 Posted November 21, 2006 I have not asked my mm to leave his wife and i never will !! just was happy he said he loved me!! its not like i just met him!!! why is everyone so negative on this site.....surely there must be some happy endings?? maybe us english are just a bit different! i understand you sassiex. it was exactly my attitude when mm confessed to me. i was in disbelief but he wooed me. i still didn't want to break his family but later on you will realize your demands and needs as woman in love, while he begins to subside. and, he was half drunk/half sober when he told me. although the relationship went on, it went unwell. just a piece of advice. get our before you couldn't turn your back on him anymore. the pain is so scary for me now because i am still very much in love. take care and good luck.
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