wmgq_79 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 In the last couple of days i have found out that my wife had kissed the super of my our complex,, its killing me inside and i dont know what to do. I got mad and walked out of the house for a couple of hours and came back. I told her that we need to work this out. resently i found her diary and found out that the guy was telling her things that me and her should do,, but all she did was tell him all of our troubles and the guy took advantage of the situation and told her every thing that she wanted to hear now she sais that she is confused but she loves me as her husband. But she let me know since i told her that i was more than her husband i was her friend that anything that was bothering her to tell me,,, she told that her feeling for that guy are weird cuz she has a crush on the guy and the feelings that he has are mutual. I confronted the guy and he denied it, i even found that my wife had lied about the last time she talked to the guy she told me that they said there goodbies and that was that but in her diary she wrote that," This cant go on because my family wont let this is not write". and he said that life is not fair and that they will meet again in another life. she did not even worry about me and our daughter. But even if they said there goodbies I am fiding weird phone calls that she sais she does not recognise the number but i have called back and they are his numbers. i am very worried of where this is going.... heeeellllpppp!!!
Bryanp Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 I am really sorry for you. She clearly is lying about the phone calls. I would strongly suggest marriage counseling. I would also make it clear that there are consequences to her actions and make her aware of what these consequences are. If the roles were reversed how do you think your wife would be acting? I would also think about contacting the company that owns the building and tell them about the Super and inform them that you will file a lawsuit against him and the company if this continues. Her lying about the phone calls is a very bad sign. I do not think she is telling you the whole truth.
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