sadladyx3 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 I was dating this guy at the beginning of the year. We fought a lot but most of the time we dealt with it. It didn't seem like a problem then. But we broke up, got back together, broke up, got back together, broke up. And it's been like that, until we finally stopped playing around and we broke up for real. So now I didn't realize how much I loved him. But now that I do, I miss him. And I love him. I love so much and I dont know what to do about it I think he's over me. I've talked to him a few times and told him I love him, I don't think he takes it seriously. But I do love him I just don't know what to do about it I tried forgetting him by keeping busy but everytime I forget about him and stop thinking about him. He always comes back into my life and I am so confused..Help anyone? I went through a deep depression two weeks after we broke up. I didn't want to do anything anymore.
MrPot Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Research "No Contact" (NC) on this site and dedicate yourself to its principles.
jimmy20013 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 And if you need encouragment, read the thread I started. NC is the way to go sweetheart. Accept that NC is the only way to go right now or you will learn it the hard way later.
hbd1981 Posted August 1, 2006 Posted August 1, 2006 NC is the way to be! I was in your shoes - I broke up with a guy I was crazy about...and I didn't want to establish NC because it meant not talking to him. I thought that if we remained friendly he'd realize how amazing I am and come running back, but he didn't. Establishing NC is the only way to go. Give him a chance to miss you. I know you'll miss him...it'll take time to get over him. Whenever you feel like contacting him, do something you love - read a book, workout (I have been doing it, and it really helps with stress!!), etc...FOCUS ON WHAT'S MOST IMPORTANT - YOU! Trust me, if I can get over my ex, anyone can...it will get better! Best of luck!
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