Cherokee21 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 OK, I tried to make this short and snappy but theres some extra VERY juicy stuff at the bottom.....so check that out if ya want. I met this guy about 4 months ago at work. He had just gotten out a 4 year relationship with involves a kid and I was with my absuive boyfriend, whom I am still with after about 1.5 year who everyone was telling me to leave because he is dangerous. At first I blew this guy off, telling him I had too much going on. But eventually I gave in and he offered that I use him as a booty call so we don't have to get any drama started. He warned me not to fall for him and he actually labeled himself as a player/man whore. He started saying he loved me, which I've heard all before. But then he started talking to me alot on the nights I came over......we got to know each other and i explained my terrible situation with my bf, he talked about his fall out with his babys mama, etc.....then he started asking me to stay the night.....i started hanging out with his friends.....i got to know his friends, sort of......he said he wished i would just leave my man, for my sake.......And I thought he was just playing me at first, but by this point I was attached without knowing it.... And I normally wouldn't fall for a player, but what really got me was that one night he looked in me in the eyes almost crying and told me i was so beautiful and that he wanted to show me that I deserve a good guy.....he seemed VERY emotional, and this wasn't the first time I'd seen him cry. He told me alot of stuff, and I think he was genuinely emotional, because we were always very upfront with each other. ( as weird as that is. lol ) But basically, what happened was I broke up with my boyfriend, told this guy and he left me in the dust for another girl. He has been ignoring my calls for abt a month now. And now He already left that girl, and has moved on to a girl who he labels as his gf. But now he has picked up on getting into contact with me again, texting me etc. And I'm just swallowing my pride, and going with it. What do you guys think is he just stringing me along because he has a girl now? You know, just to still have a good status with me....for backup if he has a fall out with this new girl? And also, just out of curiousity, why would he SUDDENLY have a gf, would it be just as an excuse to all the girls he has dissed recently (including me).... The "BACKUP I have a girlfriend now." and also the "You can't have me." sorta thing.....? One of my friends told me that he has an ex from 5 years ago, (bf the 4 year relationship obviously) who he is still hooking up with, saying he loves in texts, and then dropping for months on end. So, is he trying to make me another one of his 'hollaback' girls??? Just to use me whenever he wants. Or did he think he was actually falling for one and ran and hid so he could void all feelings he mighta had for me??? ......THE JUICY STUFF.... --SOO also,....this is very interesting. The other day...He sent me a very rude text thanking him for frying his computer when I spilled a drink on it, because he lost pics of his daughter... ya know just sent me a sweet thank you in a text for that.....and this was the longest text he'd sent me in a while we'll just say that lol....But then when I said I was frantically apologizing and saying that I would replace it he seemed to feel really bad. Of course he didn't call me, he was just texting me stuff like 'Its cool, it'll be ok' etc etc. And now he is being all nice. But atleast he is going to try to get me a job at a restaurant where he is a regular....its like a knock off hooters too, real classy. LOL ---And SOMETHING ELSE very interesting, a few weeks ago I went out to a cue/bar with some friends and my abusive on and off boyfriend (since all this).....Well, HE was there with his family, a bunch of guys....and HIS DAD came up to me saying, "hey, that guy over there, (his name) *pointed* wants to meet you." I was polite, but denied as I told him that we used to work together (I got layed off, and 2 weeks after that he quit) and that we were already friends. His dad kept trying to get me to talk to him saying "he wants to tell you something, etc etc" but I ignored him the entire night...I was pissed that he hadn't been returning ANY of my phone calls or texts for a month, PLUS word gets around, and my bf had a pretty good idea about what was going on..... so I didn't want to have to get into all that. In fact, I would have just left if it were my choice. It was going ok, just lots of us checking each other out from across the room, and my bf getting crazy jealous. But as my bf and I were walking past him, his lil family crew started hollering out my name and saying "Damn (his name) shes hot, REALLY f*cking hot".....pretty much those exact words. They were just acting like trash and being very disrespectful and embarrasing me...but I just kept walking. And my boyfriend did very well with brushing it off at first, but then they kept hollering at me and he couldn't resist to jump in and ask why they were saying stuff to me. Well, he was a little drunk (and luckily my bf was not lets just say that)... so he was yelling stuff like "SHE'S NOT YOUR GIRL MAN" and just all this crazy stuff? And he had 6+ men on him while my bf only one guy friend to back him up. So for whatever reason I jumped in and pleaded that they stop, and my bf stepped off and walked out the door.....as his dad yelled "Its not his fault he did her" ??? Yeah, and I had hell to pay later, we'll just say that......
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