Bailey367 Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 Six years ago I divorced my wife two weeks after our only child died of complications from anorexia. I know it wasnt the best time for a divorce but we’ve been having problems before (mostly with finances and our daughter) but that was the last straw. I constantly blamed her for our daughters death and for anything else that went wrong. I had no contact with her for a year until I heard about her suicide attempt and I went to see her to show some support. That was 5 years ago and I haven’t heard from her since. I know it was wrong to blame her and leaving her alone at the worst moment of our lives. I’d like to tell her I’m sorry and start talking to her again or atleast see how shes doing. But I dont want to get back together. Do I have any chance after all I did?[/sIZE]
Guest Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Six years ago I divorced my wife two weeks after our only child died of complications from anorexia. I know it wasnt the best time for a divorce but we’ve been having problems before (mostly with finances and our daughter) but that was the last straw. I constantly blamed her for our daughters death and for anything else that went wrong. I had no contact with her for a year until I heard about her suicide attempt and I went to see her to show some support. That was 5 years ago and I haven’t heard from her since. I know it was wrong to blame her and leaving her alone at the worst moment of our lives. I’d like to tell her I’m sorry and start talking to her again or atleast see how shes doing. But I dont want to get back together. Do I have any chance after all I did?[/sIZE] Leave her alone. Whatver the problems, you abandonded your wife. For better or for worse is the vow you took and you reneged. Do her a favor and leave her alone.
Ukwizard Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Five years is a long time my friend. You say you never had contact for a year until her suicide attempt. How long ago was that? Five years is a long time, and in that time people do change. I don`t think you have anything to lose in doing so, but you have to remember you left her before, and by coming back it may not do her any favours.
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