chrisy484 Posted July 29, 2006 Posted July 29, 2006 me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a few weeks now. at first when we met we hung out every day. now its slowed down which i dont mind. he doesnt drive so i drive him to and from work somedays so thats how we really get to see each other now b.c he is helping his friend with his car. i recently snapped at him one day dropping him off and said that i feel like im a taxi and all we do is say hi and bye lately to each other. I felt sooo bad afterwards so i called him up and apologized - today we were suppose to go to a baseball game and this morning when i dropped him off i asked him again if he was definitely coming with me and he hesitated and said that he had to finish working on his friends car. i really didnt mind bc i really didnt want to go to the game myself bc of the weather. so he called me later in the day from work and left me a quick message saying that hes not gonna make it to the game. so i called him back and he sounds so depressed and said something about people bothering him and that he will take the bus home bc he doesnt want me to be a taxi and he hung up on me - now he wont answer my calls today. Hes depressed bc he doesnt have money to get a car and he has a baby girl that he has to pay child support for and i feel like he feels like a failure - he is just very emotional. what can i do to help him? can i help him? how can i make him cheer up?
Sally00 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Well ok... 24 people have viewed this post and not ONE responded. I will be the one to respond. People snap at each other. It's ok... things like this happen all the time. You atleast apologized to him. A lot is going on in his life and he's just not handling it well... plus, he just got into a very new relationship with you. We both don't know what it's like to go through the stuff he has, I guess. We're all different. Talk to him and remind him again that you are sorry and that you will always be there for him... and you understand his situation and didn't mean to make it harder (if you did). That should help.
Mary3 Posted July 30, 2006 Posted July 30, 2006 Treasure and appreciate him for the good man that he is.....He is dealing with alot. If you care about him just try to help him through this.
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